"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What hobbies do you DJ's have.


I'm a musician, I sing and play five instruments, women love musicians, thats how I pulled the beautiful lady that I'm married to now.

So tell us, what hobbies you have and if you have ever used them to attract the opposite sex.



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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm a House/ Techno DJ. I play clubs and events. My passion for the music and it's live presentation is a seriously driving force/ focus in my life, and great social proof. My passion for it has without doubt helped me hook up. Yer right, women love musicians (although they like them even more when they've got Game, which is still a work in progress for me).

Unlike you it has not yet helped me get a wife :) And I'm WAY in the red. And it results in a lot of really weary work days. But when I'm rocking a crowd there's literally nothing else in the world I'd rather be doing.
 

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Originally posted by thesynergist
I'm a House/ Techno DJ. I play clubs and events. My passion for the music and it's live presentation is a seriously driving force/ focus in my life, and great social proof. My passion for it has without doubt helped me hook up. Yer right, women love musicians (although they like them even more when they've got Game, which is still a work in progress for me).

Unlike you it has not yet helped me get a wife :) And I'm WAY in the red. And it results in a lot of really weary work days. But when I'm rocking a crowd there's literally nothing else in the world I'd rather be doing.
Man, I'd bet your getting ***** left and right, women love DJ's.

Hey, I use reason's to make my beats with, have you heard of that program? More recently, i've tried fruity-loops, but haven't had as much success with it.




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scuba diving. It's a fun way to escape the stress of life, but I haven't found many women at the bottom of the lake/ocean. I've gone diving with some real HBs, but in the city where I live, available women are mythical. So, I've been unsuccessful at getting women through my hobby.
 

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I ride dirt bikes.

I am begining to teach Martial arts

I play poker

I camp and hike
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Bigdawg
scuba diving. It's a fun way to escape the stress of life, but I haven't found many women at the bottom of the lake/ocean. I've

gone diving with some real HBs, but in the city where I live, available women are mythical. So, I've been unsuccessful at getting women through my hobby.
Wow, no ave women? What city do you live in?





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I ride dirt bikes.

I am begining to teach Martial arts

I play poker

I camp and hike

Now poker sounds like alot of fun, I'm thinking of learning that myself, and of course if you get good at it theres money to be made.

There's a real popular book out about how to make money at poker, its been around awhile, cant seem to think of the name of it right now, do you know the book i'm talking about?


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I like history and visiting museums and historical events and old forts.

I also enjoy collecting old military items like bayonets, swords, etc
 

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Now, that sounds like a good idea, I think i'll take me and wifey to a musem. For some reason, i've never considered that...





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Man! I stopped riding motorcycle's after I broke my legs on one!

Ouch, talk about the pain....:nervous:


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by SAYNO
Wow, no ave women? What city do you live in?

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Let me clarify. I live in a midwestern city with a Big Ten university in it. Yeah, party central. I even work at this university. The place is crawling with HBs. But in my cynical and jaded world view, it seems like they are all happily involved, and that the only available women are the fuglies. Who wants to score with a fugly?

Of course, if my hobby was ONS, I'd probably have little trouble getting those HBs (assuming my game was good enough), but that's never been my thing.

So, scuba diving, as a hobby, really helps me let go of such a jaded view of the world. But I'm ready to start other hobbies which will get me into contact with available HBs.
 

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I build stuff for around my house. My friends then come over and offer to buy them from me. (I haven't let anything go yet. ;-)








Chicks dig guys who can build things, I've found. ;-)

Chris
 

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Wow

Thats very cool man, how long did it take to build those things?



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I"m a walking gander mountain commercial.

Hunt, fish, camp.

Also:

Kayak
Mountain Bike
Ski
Snowboard
Live music
 

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The desk - a little over a month

The arcade machine - about 3 months

I'm pretty pleased with both. :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Man, I'd bet your getting ***** left and right, women love DJ's.
Heh...yeah, they sure as hell do. Moreso the big names though. I'm just a local act right now. Live performance has added to my confidence level drastically over the last couple years though, which has without doubt added to my game.

As for production...I get such a rush from performance, and keep so busy as it is, I haven't done much more than dabble with Fr.Loops a bit. Sooner or later I'll crack and start cutting tracks though :)
 
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