"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What hobbies do you DJ's have.


I'm a musician, I sing and play five instruments, women love musicians, thats how I pulled the beautiful lady that I'm married to now.

So tell us, what hobbies you have and if you have ever used them to attract the opposite sex.



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm a House/ Techno DJ. I play clubs and events. My passion for the music and it's live presentation is a seriously driving force/ focus in my life, and great social proof. My passion for it has without doubt helped me hook up. Yer right, women love musicians (although they like them even more when they've got Game, which is still a work in progress for me).

Unlike you it has not yet helped me get a wife :) And I'm WAY in the red. And it results in a lot of really weary work days. But when I'm rocking a crowd there's literally nothing else in the world I'd rather be doing.
 

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Originally posted by thesynergist
I'm a House/ Techno DJ. I play clubs and events. My passion for the music and it's live presentation is a seriously driving force/ focus in my life, and great social proof. My passion for it has without doubt helped me hook up. Yer right, women love musicians (although they like them even more when they've got Game, which is still a work in progress for me).

Unlike you it has not yet helped me get a wife :) And I'm WAY in the red. And it results in a lot of really weary work days. But when I'm rocking a crowd there's literally nothing else in the world I'd rather be doing.
Man, I'd bet your getting ***** left and right, women love DJ's.

Hey, I use reason's to make my beats with, have you heard of that program? More recently, i've tried fruity-loops, but haven't had as much success with it.




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scuba diving. It's a fun way to escape the stress of life, but I haven't found many women at the bottom of the lake/ocean. I've gone diving with some real HBs, but in the city where I live, available women are mythical. So, I've been unsuccessful at getting women through my hobby.
 

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I ride dirt bikes.

I am begining to teach Martial arts

I play poker

I camp and hike
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Bigdawg
scuba diving. It's a fun way to escape the stress of life, but I haven't found many women at the bottom of the lake/ocean. I've

gone diving with some real HBs, but in the city where I live, available women are mythical. So, I've been unsuccessful at getting women through my hobby.
Wow, no ave women? What city do you live in?





Originally posted by NewMan
I ride dirt bikes.

I am begining to teach Martial arts

I play poker

I camp and hike

Now poker sounds like alot of fun, I'm thinking of learning that myself, and of course if you get good at it theres money to be made.

There's a real popular book out about how to make money at poker, its been around awhile, cant seem to think of the name of it right now, do you know the book i'm talking about?


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I like history and visiting museums and historical events and old forts.

I also enjoy collecting old military items like bayonets, swords, etc
 

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Now, that sounds like a good idea, I think i'll take me and wifey to a musem. For some reason, i've never considered that...





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Man! I stopped riding motorcycle's after I broke my legs on one!

Ouch, talk about the pain....:nervous:


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by SAYNO
Wow, no ave women? What city do you live in?

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Let me clarify. I live in a midwestern city with a Big Ten university in it. Yeah, party central. I even work at this university. The place is crawling with HBs. But in my cynical and jaded world view, it seems like they are all happily involved, and that the only available women are the fuglies. Who wants to score with a fugly?

Of course, if my hobby was ONS, I'd probably have little trouble getting those HBs (assuming my game was good enough), but that's never been my thing.

So, scuba diving, as a hobby, really helps me let go of such a jaded view of the world. But I'm ready to start other hobbies which will get me into contact with available HBs.
 

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I build stuff for around my house. My friends then come over and offer to buy them from me. (I haven't let anything go yet. ;-)








Chicks dig guys who can build things, I've found. ;-)

Chris
 

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Wow

Thats very cool man, how long did it take to build those things?



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I"m a walking gander mountain commercial.

Hunt, fish, camp.

Also:

Kayak
Mountain Bike
Ski
Snowboard
Live music
 

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The desk - a little over a month

The arcade machine - about 3 months

I'm pretty pleased with both. :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man, I'd bet your getting ***** left and right, women love DJ's.
Heh...yeah, they sure as hell do. Moreso the big names though. I'm just a local act right now. Live performance has added to my confidence level drastically over the last couple years though, which has without doubt added to my game.

As for production...I get such a rush from performance, and keep so busy as it is, I haven't done much more than dabble with Fr.Loops a bit. Sooner or later I'll crack and start cutting tracks though :)
 
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