“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SAYNO

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What hobbies do you DJ's have.


I'm a musician, I sing and play five instruments, women love musicians, thats how I pulled the beautiful lady that I'm married to now.

So tell us, what hobbies you have and if you have ever used them to attract the opposite sex.



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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm a House/ Techno DJ. I play clubs and events. My passion for the music and it's live presentation is a seriously driving force/ focus in my life, and great social proof. My passion for it has without doubt helped me hook up. Yer right, women love musicians (although they like them even more when they've got Game, which is still a work in progress for me).

Unlike you it has not yet helped me get a wife :) And I'm WAY in the red. And it results in a lot of really weary work days. But when I'm rocking a crowd there's literally nothing else in the world I'd rather be doing.
 

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Originally posted by thesynergist
I'm a House/ Techno DJ. I play clubs and events. My passion for the music and it's live presentation is a seriously driving force/ focus in my life, and great social proof. My passion for it has without doubt helped me hook up. Yer right, women love musicians (although they like them even more when they've got Game, which is still a work in progress for me).

Unlike you it has not yet helped me get a wife :) And I'm WAY in the red. And it results in a lot of really weary work days. But when I'm rocking a crowd there's literally nothing else in the world I'd rather be doing.
Man, I'd bet your getting ***** left and right, women love DJ's.

Hey, I use reason's to make my beats with, have you heard of that program? More recently, i've tried fruity-loops, but haven't had as much success with it.




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scuba diving. It's a fun way to escape the stress of life, but I haven't found many women at the bottom of the lake/ocean. I've gone diving with some real HBs, but in the city where I live, available women are mythical. So, I've been unsuccessful at getting women through my hobby.
 

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I ride dirt bikes.

I am begining to teach Martial arts

I play poker

I camp and hike
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Bigdawg
scuba diving. It's a fun way to escape the stress of life, but I haven't found many women at the bottom of the lake/ocean. I've

gone diving with some real HBs, but in the city where I live, available women are mythical. So, I've been unsuccessful at getting women through my hobby.
Wow, no ave women? What city do you live in?





Originally posted by NewMan
I ride dirt bikes.

I am begining to teach Martial arts

I play poker

I camp and hike

Now poker sounds like alot of fun, I'm thinking of learning that myself, and of course if you get good at it theres money to be made.

There's a real popular book out about how to make money at poker, its been around awhile, cant seem to think of the name of it right now, do you know the book i'm talking about?


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I like history and visiting museums and historical events and old forts.

I also enjoy collecting old military items like bayonets, swords, etc
 

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Now, that sounds like a good idea, I think i'll take me and wifey to a musem. For some reason, i've never considered that...





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Man! I stopped riding motorcycle's after I broke my legs on one!

Ouch, talk about the pain....:nervous:


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by SAYNO
Wow, no ave women? What city do you live in?

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Let me clarify. I live in a midwestern city with a Big Ten university in it. Yeah, party central. I even work at this university. The place is crawling with HBs. But in my cynical and jaded world view, it seems like they are all happily involved, and that the only available women are the fuglies. Who wants to score with a fugly?

Of course, if my hobby was ONS, I'd probably have little trouble getting those HBs (assuming my game was good enough), but that's never been my thing.

So, scuba diving, as a hobby, really helps me let go of such a jaded view of the world. But I'm ready to start other hobbies which will get me into contact with available HBs.
 

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I build stuff for around my house. My friends then come over and offer to buy them from me. (I haven't let anything go yet. ;-)








Chicks dig guys who can build things, I've found. ;-)

Chris
 

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Wow

Thats very cool man, how long did it take to build those things?



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I"m a walking gander mountain commercial.

Hunt, fish, camp.

Also:

Kayak
Mountain Bike
Ski
Snowboard
Live music
 

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The desk - a little over a month

The arcade machine - about 3 months

I'm pretty pleased with both. :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man, I'd bet your getting ***** left and right, women love DJ's.
Heh...yeah, they sure as hell do. Moreso the big names though. I'm just a local act right now. Live performance has added to my confidence level drastically over the last couple years though, which has without doubt added to my game.

As for production...I get such a rush from performance, and keep so busy as it is, I haven't done much more than dabble with Fr.Loops a bit. Sooner or later I'll crack and start cutting tracks though :)
 
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