“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fate

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten

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dont ever be afraid of fate.

when fate blows past you, follow it with open arms and see where it takes you.
never be afraid to dance with fate, sometimes it lets you lead, sometimes it makes you follow.

everything in this life is 50 50.
the only thing for sure is that its gods will not ours on what happens and the outcome is what it is suppose to be.


fate will knock upon your doorstep some day , its ok to let it in:cheer:
 

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How do some of you non-religious people feel about fate? That's what I'd like to know. I'm not exactly religious, I believe in SOMETHING, but I don't know what. But I do believe in fate in some situations....
 

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Originally posted by level006
How do some of you non-religious people feel about fate? That's what I'd like to know. I'm not exactly religious, I believe in SOMETHING, but I don't know what. But I do believe in fate in some situations....
i'm non religious, but I believe in fate... sorta. I think that everything that will happen has already happened. weird, huh? yeah well, i'm too tired from my workout to explain why i think that, so i'll leave it up to your imagination and explain later ;) . That's kinda like fate, right?
 

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I believe in fate, but maybe not in the way you're thinking.

We didn't choose to be who we are, we didn't choose this life, and we didn't choose our family.

Everything we do is based on past experience, right? But since we didn't have any control over who we are, we couldn't choose what we experience, we couldn't choose to be raised the way we are. We only do what we base on past experience. If we were born in someone else's shoes, with their family and their experiences, we would end up the same as them.

If that were true, it means that predestination is true in some sense, because we don't really control our actions.

I don't know if that explanation makes sense, but I discussed/argued with someone for a long time about this and he won outright.

As for the whole thing about coincidences, or maybe luck, well, I don't believe in coincidences. There are a lot of books on on the topic. There's a lot of evidence that points toward something called the Law of Attraction, and it states that whatever you concentrate on, you will get.

Not sure if this is what you meant, but I hope it helps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Penkitten's reply made me think of Garth Brooks... Bama boy here, sorry.

"Life's a dance, you learn as you go, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow."

I'm not particularly religious, however I was raised by christian parents, luckily they let me think on my own. I do believe that fate exists, but I think that you also have a say in the matter. Free will, all that jazz. I do think that things happen for a reason and that in the end, everything works out. Not necessarily for the better, but I think that if you have the right mindset, things usually wind up working out for you.
 

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Originally posted by TACH
Penkitten's reply made me think of Garth Brooks... Bama boy here, sorry.

"Life's a dance, you learn as you go, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow."
John Micheal Montgomery is the artist.
 

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Oh damn, you're right. I was thinking of Brooks' 'the Dance'
 
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