crazykid returns
Don Juan
How many believe in fate and how things work, that certain things happen for a reason?
I'll let you know why later on.
I'll let you know why later on.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fate
- Thread starter crazykid returns
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
dont ever be afraid of fate.
when fate blows past you, follow it with open arms and see where it takes you.
never be afraid to dance with fate, sometimes it lets you lead, sometimes it makes you follow.
everything in this life is 50 50.
the only thing for sure is that its gods will not ours on what happens and the outcome is what it is suppose to be.
fate will knock upon your doorstep some day , its ok to let it in:cheer:
when fate blows past you, follow it with open arms and see where it takes you.
never be afraid to dance with fate, sometimes it lets you lead, sometimes it makes you follow.
everything in this life is 50 50.
the only thing for sure is that its gods will not ours on what happens and the outcome is what it is suppose to be.
fate will knock upon your doorstep some day , its ok to let it in:cheer:
i'm non religious, but I believe in fate... sorta. I think that everything that will happen has already happened. weird, huh? yeah well, i'm too tired from my workout to explain why i think that, so i'll leave it up to your imagination and explain later
. That's kinda like fate, right?I believe in fate, but maybe not in the way you're thinking.
We didn't choose to be who we are, we didn't choose this life, and we didn't choose our family.
Everything we do is based on past experience, right? But since we didn't have any control over who we are, we couldn't choose what we experience, we couldn't choose to be raised the way we are. We only do what we base on past experience. If we were born in someone else's shoes, with their family and their experiences, we would end up the same as them.
If that were true, it means that predestination is true in some sense, because we don't really control our actions.
I don't know if that explanation makes sense, but I discussed/argued with someone for a long time about this and he won outright.
As for the whole thing about coincidences, or maybe luck, well, I don't believe in coincidences. There are a lot of books on on the topic. There's a lot of evidence that points toward something called the Law of Attraction, and it states that whatever you concentrate on, you will get.
Not sure if this is what you meant, but I hope it helps.
We didn't choose to be who we are, we didn't choose this life, and we didn't choose our family.
Everything we do is based on past experience, right? But since we didn't have any control over who we are, we couldn't choose what we experience, we couldn't choose to be raised the way we are. We only do what we base on past experience. If we were born in someone else's shoes, with their family and their experiences, we would end up the same as them.
If that were true, it means that predestination is true in some sense, because we don't really control our actions.
I don't know if that explanation makes sense, but I discussed/argued with someone for a long time about this and he won outright.
As for the whole thing about coincidences, or maybe luck, well, I don't believe in coincidences. There are a lot of books on on the topic. There's a lot of evidence that points toward something called the Law of Attraction, and it states that whatever you concentrate on, you will get.
Not sure if this is what you meant, but I hope it helps.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TACH
Don Juan
Penkitten's reply made me think of Garth Brooks... Bama boy here, sorry.
"Life's a dance, you learn as you go, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow."
I'm not particularly religious, however I was raised by christian parents, luckily they let me think on my own. I do believe that fate exists, but I think that you also have a say in the matter. Free will, all that jazz. I do think that things happen for a reason and that in the end, everything works out. Not necessarily for the better, but I think that if you have the right mindset, things usually wind up working out for you.
"Life's a dance, you learn as you go, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow."
I'm not particularly religious, however I was raised by christian parents, luckily they let me think on my own. I do believe that fate exists, but I think that you also have a say in the matter. Free will, all that jazz. I do think that things happen for a reason and that in the end, everything works out. Not necessarily for the better, but I think that if you have the right mindset, things usually wind up working out for you.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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John Micheal Montgomery is the artist.
TACH
Don Juan
Oh damn, you're right. I was thinking of Brooks' 'the Dance'