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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:betheman said:"Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:betheman said:"Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And I still maintain that if you slice them up first it's perfectly manageable.5string said:I keep telling you guys that fat chicks are difficult to kidnap!
I'd rather spank the weasel than do Ms.Piggie.
Generalizing too hastily, but I get your point. There is probably a correlation between entering into extreme beauty levels and sense of entitlement.EastWind said:Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s. This is for girls aged 18-25. The hotter ones are nicer to look at, definitely, but the amount of bull**** and air-headedness one has to suffer through - unless you are THE alpha dog - is just not worth, even more so because a lot of the 8+ are horrible in bed. You can call me out for lack of standards all you want, but I'd rather have a nice interaction and awesome sex with a 6-7, free of frustration, than deal with any portion of a HB9's antics. This goes double for "relationship material" girls. I just assume any HB8+ in the 18-25 range to not be material for any kind of interaction, short or prolonged.
I have told my friends a few times, joking only a little, that I follow the golden rule. I will call them idiots or fat if they are being idiots or getting fat because I would want them to alert me of the same if I were to make such massive blunders. That is the golden rule that everyone always promotes, is it not?gradhodude said:chicks need to tell other Chicks that they are getting fat. If guys do they are being *******s. But if chicks DON'T they are being more of an *******.
Yep thats all that is on that site... Got tired of meeting those its nasty facial hair and chest hair sometimes. FAT no thanks...betheman said:How can fat women think they can be sexy?
check out POF, look at the whales on there and know one thing...there are thousands of desperate guys with incredibly low standards, who will WK those monsters. there is no real incentive for a lot of those women to look after themselves, the attitude is, "Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now" and Ive actually heard this.
if some mens standards werent so low, women wouldnt be whales
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
POF is your calling Fat Lay JayFatal Jay said:I wont lie i like to go to bed with fatties but never date
So basically, NAFWALT?backbreaker said:the idea that all fat women think they are hot only exists on this site. that's not real life.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.