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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:betheman said:"Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:betheman said:"Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now"
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And I still maintain that if you slice them up first it's perfectly manageable.5string said:I keep telling you guys that fat chicks are difficult to kidnap!
I'd rather spank the weasel than do Ms.Piggie.
Generalizing too hastily, but I get your point. There is probably a correlation between entering into extreme beauty levels and sense of entitlement.EastWind said:Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s. This is for girls aged 18-25. The hotter ones are nicer to look at, definitely, but the amount of bull**** and air-headedness one has to suffer through - unless you are THE alpha dog - is just not worth, even more so because a lot of the 8+ are horrible in bed. You can call me out for lack of standards all you want, but I'd rather have a nice interaction and awesome sex with a 6-7, free of frustration, than deal with any portion of a HB9's antics. This goes double for "relationship material" girls. I just assume any HB8+ in the 18-25 range to not be material for any kind of interaction, short or prolonged.
I have told my friends a few times, joking only a little, that I follow the golden rule. I will call them idiots or fat if they are being idiots or getting fat because I would want them to alert me of the same if I were to make such massive blunders. That is the golden rule that everyone always promotes, is it not?gradhodude said:chicks need to tell other Chicks that they are getting fat. If guys do they are being *******s. But if chicks DON'T they are being more of an *******.
Yep thats all that is on that site... Got tired of meeting those its nasty facial hair and chest hair sometimes. FAT no thanks...betheman said:How can fat women think they can be sexy?
check out POF, look at the whales on there and know one thing...there are thousands of desperate guys with incredibly low standards, who will WK those monsters. there is no real incentive for a lot of those women to look after themselves, the attitude is, "Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now" and Ive actually heard this.
if some mens standards werent so low, women wouldnt be whales
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
POF is your calling Fat Lay JayFatal Jay said:I wont lie i like to go to bed with fatties but never date
So basically, NAFWALT?backbreaker said:the idea that all fat women think they are hot only exists on this site. that's not real life.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.