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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:betheman said:"Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:betheman said:"Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And I still maintain that if you slice them up first it's perfectly manageable.5string said:I keep telling you guys that fat chicks are difficult to kidnap!
I'd rather spank the weasel than do Ms.Piggie.
Generalizing too hastily, but I get your point. There is probably a correlation between entering into extreme beauty levels and sense of entitlement.EastWind said:Your judgement on what is considered to be fat or unattractive notwithstanding, I've found women in the 6-7 rating range to be much more enjoyable in every respect than the 8+'s. This is for girls aged 18-25. The hotter ones are nicer to look at, definitely, but the amount of bull**** and air-headedness one has to suffer through - unless you are THE alpha dog - is just not worth, even more so because a lot of the 8+ are horrible in bed. You can call me out for lack of standards all you want, but I'd rather have a nice interaction and awesome sex with a 6-7, free of frustration, than deal with any portion of a HB9's antics. This goes double for "relationship material" girls. I just assume any HB8+ in the 18-25 range to not be material for any kind of interaction, short or prolonged.
I have told my friends a few times, joking only a little, that I follow the golden rule. I will call them idiots or fat if they are being idiots or getting fat because I would want them to alert me of the same if I were to make such massive blunders. That is the golden rule that everyone always promotes, is it not?gradhodude said:chicks need to tell other Chicks that they are getting fat. If guys do they are being *******s. But if chicks DON'T they are being more of an *******.
Yep thats all that is on that site... Got tired of meeting those its nasty facial hair and chest hair sometimes. FAT no thanks...betheman said:How can fat women think they can be sexy?
check out POF, look at the whales on there and know one thing...there are thousands of desperate guys with incredibly low standards, who will WK those monsters. there is no real incentive for a lot of those women to look after themselves, the attitude is, "Im a lady with curves" "I know Im overweight but compared to other bigger women Im average now" and Ive actually heard this.
if some mens standards werent so low, women wouldnt be whales
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
POF is your calling Fat Lay JayFatal Jay said:I wont lie i like to go to bed with fatties but never date
So basically, NAFWALT?backbreaker said:the idea that all fat women think they are hot only exists on this site. that's not real life.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.