"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fat Men's Clubs were popular in the early 1900s

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Apparently it was the "in thing" to be fat and was seen as a status symbol back in the day. Similar to some other countries around the world where being fat was associated with wealth and ability to provide.

Doubtful these ever become a thing again today with all of the knowledge of how that extra weight typically shortens lives and brings negative health consequences.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apparently it was the "in thing" to be fat and was seen as a status symbol back in the day. Similar to some other countries around the world where being fat was associated with wealth and ability to provide.

Doubtful these ever become a thing again today with all of the knowledge of how that extra weight typically shortens lives and brings negative health consequences.

They are still popular but have become increasingly less exclusive as their membership ranks have swelled (no pun intended) to include 70% of the U.S. population! And because we live the golden age of equality and inclusivity, women have also been allowed to join en masse (again, no pun intended...)
 

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"For most of our ancestors, the poorer they were, the less food they had to eat, and the thinner and shorter they tended to be," Leeworthy said. "And power and wealth and status are attractive characteristics: If a person's body is their temple, then being the size of a cathedral told others that you were someone of significance."
 
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