I don't know if this is just confirmation bias or if I am onto something but every time a girl is talking to another girl and saying "my boyfriend" this, my boyfriend that, it's a fat girl. it's like fat girls want to keep reminding everyone that they have a boyfriend?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
fat girls show off that they have a boyfriend?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
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RickTheToad
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Pics or it didn't happen. Lolz
It’s a combination of insecurity and the fact that having a boyfriend is the only thing she has going on for her in her life. If she was focused on self improvement and getting her fat ass to the gym, she’d talk about that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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I've seen women of all sizes do this. "My boyfriend this", "My husband that". I always thought they were doing it to passively tell people they were taken so they didn't get hit on.
No different why they have OLD profiles. A lot of them are not even actively seeking but have it simply as validation to show off how their inbox is loaded and in demand they're.
Naw it aint confirmation bias, I too have noticed that fat girls love to proudly and loudly proclaim "My BOYFRIEND so and so and such and such......" So they can let everyone know they have a boyfriend....
you know, if she was talking to me, I would definitely think "does she think I am hitting on her?" but it's 2 girls talking and I am overhearing them
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Have to understand that fatties have to compensate somehow to be accepted or validated the same as more attractive women in life, so telling everyone she's a boyfriend makes her 1) seem like someone who isn't that disgusting that she repells ALL men, if some man apparently wants her she probably isn't a complete headcase and 2) Makes her insanely proud so she can't help herself and 3) Fat girls talk ALOT anyway so why would they shut their mouths at the opportunity to brag?
Of course it all comes from insecurity.
Getting acceptance from the 'herd', that's what it all boils down to.
Of course it all comes from insecurity.
Getting acceptance from the 'herd', that's what it all boils down to.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.