I don't know if this is just confirmation bias or if I am onto something but every time a girl is talking to another girl and saying "my boyfriend" this, my boyfriend that, it's a fat girl. it's like fat girls want to keep reminding everyone that they have a boyfriend?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
fat girls show off that they have a boyfriend?
- Thread starter espanish
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
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RickTheToad
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Pics or it didn't happen. Lolz
It’s a combination of insecurity and the fact that having a boyfriend is the only thing she has going on for her in her life. If she was focused on self improvement and getting her fat ass to the gym, she’d talk about that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
logicallefty
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I've seen women of all sizes do this. "My boyfriend this", "My husband that". I always thought they were doing it to passively tell people they were taken so they didn't get hit on.
No different why they have OLD profiles. A lot of them are not even actively seeking but have it simply as validation to show off how their inbox is loaded and in demand they're.
Naw it aint confirmation bias, I too have noticed that fat girls love to proudly and loudly proclaim "My BOYFRIEND so and so and such and such......" So they can let everyone know they have a boyfriend....
you know, if she was talking to me, I would definitely think "does she think I am hitting on her?" but it's 2 girls talking and I am overhearing them
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Have to understand that fatties have to compensate somehow to be accepted or validated the same as more attractive women in life, so telling everyone she's a boyfriend makes her 1) seem like someone who isn't that disgusting that she repells ALL men, if some man apparently wants her she probably isn't a complete headcase and 2) Makes her insanely proud so she can't help herself and 3) Fat girls talk ALOT anyway so why would they shut their mouths at the opportunity to brag?
Of course it all comes from insecurity.
Getting acceptance from the 'herd', that's what it all boils down to.
Of course it all comes from insecurity.
Getting acceptance from the 'herd', that's what it all boils down to.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.