"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've gone out and done 5 approaches, and spent a night being taught by a a guy who is great with women.

I'm looking to do more. My next objective is to get 10 rejections. I won't _try_ to get rejected, but the aim would be to get over my fear of rejection.

The exercise is genius in a way, as you can't possibly fail it.

Any ideas on other drastic measures to develop your skills with women?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Get your sh1t together. Organize, set some goals and be productive.

Women will come along real fast.
 
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Consider doing the Newbie Mission or something similar. Go for quantity!
I can't wait to go out thursday again and to increase my experience with 12+ approaches! :cool:

Silk
 
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Wow, my posts are really bombing hard these days.
 
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Re: ?

Originally posted by D97
Wow, my posts are really bombing hard these days.
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WTF do u expect? It's a crappy question.

You can start by defining what "success with women" is.

Do you wanna bang a hottie?
Do you want girls to admire you?
Do you wanna have a threesome with 2 sisters?

Stuff like that. Define it, then do it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: ?

Originally posted by Ice Cold



Do you wanna have a threesome with 2 sisters?
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OMG. I can't believe I never thought of that.
 
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It's not that your post is bombing. It is just that there is no other way. You have to keep going until you no longer fear rejection, or until you have success. That is the only way to get better. No-one wants to acknowledge it because it means you have to fail in order to succeed but that's how the world goes.
 
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The fastest way of getting good with women is experience. There aint no other way. You gotta pay your dues.
 
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