"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fastest way of getting good with women

D97

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I've gone out and done 5 approaches, and spent a night being taught by a a guy who is great with women.

I'm looking to do more. My next objective is to get 10 rejections. I won't _try_ to get rejected, but the aim would be to get over my fear of rejection.

The exercise is genius in a way, as you can't possibly fail it.

Any ideas on other drastic measures to develop your skills with women?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ice Cold

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Get your sh1t together. Organize, set some goals and be productive.

Women will come along real fast.
 

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Consider doing the Newbie Mission or something similar. Go for quantity!
I can't wait to go out thursday again and to increase my experience with 12+ approaches! :cool:

Silk
 

D97

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?

Wow, my posts are really bombing hard these days.
 

Ice Cold

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Re: ?

Originally posted by D97
Wow, my posts are really bombing hard these days.
WTF do u expect? It's a crappy question.

You can start by defining what "success with women" is.

Do you wanna bang a hottie?
Do you want girls to admire you?
Do you wanna have a threesome with 2 sisters?

Stuff like that. Define it, then do it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cactus3178

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Re: Re: ?

Originally posted by Ice Cold



Do you wanna have a threesome with 2 sisters?


OMG. I can't believe I never thought of that.
 

Microphone Fiend

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It's not that your post is bombing. It is just that there is no other way. You have to keep going until you no longer fear rejection, or until you have success. That is the only way to get better. No-one wants to acknowledge it because it means you have to fail in order to succeed but that's how the world goes.
 

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The fastest way of getting good with women is experience. There aint no other way. You gotta pay your dues.
 
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