"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mostly good stuff. I only got a couple complaints. It says, you're not a gangster or it would say, you're not a rockstar. How the hell do they know what kinda personality we are? I only go with baggy jeans and I would never wear my shirts seam on my shoulder because that would show my scrawny arms. Finally, scarves and man bags? F.uck that s.hit!
 

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I guess bro, with that site you got to take advice and tailor it to your style, you don't have to follow word for word.
 

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true. but they need to put that up there. Cause maybe I know better, but some "nerd" might not realize that if he's skinny, he shouldn't be wearing muscles shirts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn Im guilty of the socks and sandals combo. Even my friends told me that is lame.
 

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Create Reality said:
Damn Im guilty of the socks and sandals combo. Even my friends told me that is lame.
Haha bro, come on, that's like beginner's fashion, you learn that right out of the womb.
 

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Hmm, they say not to wear white jacket or white outerwear, but white looks good on me. That is what I think, but I might be wrong. What do you guy think about white outerwear?
 

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I don't know why they're against facial hair. :( Sideburns look good on almost any man. And some can pull off a goatie. :) Like me!
 

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Guoy Darko said:
I don't know why they're against facial hair. :( Sideburns look good on almost any man. And some can pull off a goatie. :) Like me!


I disagree with a lot of the stuff on that site; I agree with a lot of it too though. I think they are just trying to give nerds a straight forward idea of what to wear and what not to wear
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That site is as hit-or-miss as any human being randomly spouting sartorial advice. As a guide, it's horrible. Never tuck in your shirt? Wear black dress pants? Heck, they post "wear loafers" and toss up a picture of the ugliest brown lace-ups (and lace-ups are not loafers). Seriously, awful, awful, AWFUL SITE.

www.askandyaboutclothes.com

^ All you need to know ^
 

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kyphan said:
That site is as hit-or-miss as any human being randomly spouting sartorial advice. As a guide, it's horrible. Never tuck in your shirt? Wear black dress pants? Heck, they post "wear loafers" and toss up a picture of the ugliest brown lace-ups (and lace-ups are not loafers). Seriously, awful, awful, AWFUL SITE.

www.askandyaboutclothes.com

^ All you need to know ^

You actually spent money to learn how to dress man?! LMAO!
 
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Hold the phone!!!! Hold the phone!!!! "Dress to impress girls"??? The hell with that!!!!! Dress for your self!!!!! Do you like comfort? Then be comfortable!!!! Alll the ghetto boys are dressing with pants down to their ankles!!!! Do girls want that???? Hors are getting fvcked by them!!!!!!! Never dress for a hor -- dress for you!!!!!!!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
You actually spent money to learn how to dress man?! LMAO!
There are a number of free articles on that site that explain the basics to dressing far better than Fashion4Nerds. That CD he advertises is literally an encyclopedia on clothes (construction, terms, history, etc), not a "how to dress" book.

The message board is possibly the largest library of information and opinions on clothing that exists. Posters range from people such as myself who have an interest in clothing that will last longer, to a decent number of high-end custom tailors, tie-makers, and people who work for some of the larger clothing corporations.

The best part? Nobody forces you to dress a particular way. All the site does is provide information for you read as you please.
 

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From the site:

The suggestions on this site won't give you your own personal 'style'. That's something you'll have to develop entirely on your own.
Yeah... it says that and then tells me to cut my hair and shave of my goatee... which has been an integral part of my personal style for years and will continue to be. You want me to sell my guitars too? Fvck off, nerd!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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