"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mostly good stuff. I only got a couple complaints. It says, you're not a gangster or it would say, you're not a rockstar. How the hell do they know what kinda personality we are? I only go with baggy jeans and I would never wear my shirts seam on my shoulder because that would show my scrawny arms. Finally, scarves and man bags? F.uck that s.hit!
 

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I guess bro, with that site you got to take advice and tailor it to your style, you don't have to follow word for word.
 

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true. but they need to put that up there. Cause maybe I know better, but some "nerd" might not realize that if he's skinny, he shouldn't be wearing muscles shirts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damn Im guilty of the socks and sandals combo. Even my friends told me that is lame.
 

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Create Reality said:
Damn Im guilty of the socks and sandals combo. Even my friends told me that is lame.
Haha bro, come on, that's like beginner's fashion, you learn that right out of the womb.
 

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Hmm, they say not to wear white jacket or white outerwear, but white looks good on me. That is what I think, but I might be wrong. What do you guy think about white outerwear?
 

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I don't know why they're against facial hair. :( Sideburns look good on almost any man. And some can pull off a goatie. :) Like me!
 

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Guoy Darko said:
I don't know why they're against facial hair. :( Sideburns look good on almost any man. And some can pull off a goatie. :) Like me!


I disagree with a lot of the stuff on that site; I agree with a lot of it too though. I think they are just trying to give nerds a straight forward idea of what to wear and what not to wear
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That site is as hit-or-miss as any human being randomly spouting sartorial advice. As a guide, it's horrible. Never tuck in your shirt? Wear black dress pants? Heck, they post "wear loafers" and toss up a picture of the ugliest brown lace-ups (and lace-ups are not loafers). Seriously, awful, awful, AWFUL SITE.

www.askandyaboutclothes.com

^ All you need to know ^
 

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kyphan said:
That site is as hit-or-miss as any human being randomly spouting sartorial advice. As a guide, it's horrible. Never tuck in your shirt? Wear black dress pants? Heck, they post "wear loafers" and toss up a picture of the ugliest brown lace-ups (and lace-ups are not loafers). Seriously, awful, awful, AWFUL SITE.

www.askandyaboutclothes.com

^ All you need to know ^

You actually spent money to learn how to dress man?! LMAO!
 
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Hold the phone!!!! Hold the phone!!!! "Dress to impress girls"??? The hell with that!!!!! Dress for your self!!!!! Do you like comfort? Then be comfortable!!!! Alll the ghetto boys are dressing with pants down to their ankles!!!! Do girls want that???? Hors are getting fvcked by them!!!!!!! Never dress for a hor -- dress for you!!!!!!!
 

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You actually spent money to learn how to dress man?! LMAO!
There are a number of free articles on that site that explain the basics to dressing far better than Fashion4Nerds. That CD he advertises is literally an encyclopedia on clothes (construction, terms, history, etc), not a "how to dress" book.

The message board is possibly the largest library of information and opinions on clothing that exists. Posters range from people such as myself who have an interest in clothing that will last longer, to a decent number of high-end custom tailors, tie-makers, and people who work for some of the larger clothing corporations.

The best part? Nobody forces you to dress a particular way. All the site does is provide information for you read as you please.
 

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From the site:

The suggestions on this site won't give you your own personal 'style'. That's something you'll have to develop entirely on your own.
Yeah... it says that and then tells me to cut my hair and shave of my goatee... which has been an integral part of my personal style for years and will continue to be. You want me to sell my guitars too? Fvck off, nerd!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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