Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Maeisgood

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I wish there was a fashion forum here. I think clothes are boring so I know little about them, but I've noticed women pay me a lot more attention when I'm dressed well.

For casual settings (bars, etc.) does wearing a souvenir T-shirt from a faraway place (another continent or Caribbean Island) look cheesy or does it make you look like an interesting person? A shirt from far away isn’t cheap either when you consider the cost of getting there and back!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vice

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The problem is that fashion is a moving target.

You can't go wrong with starting with "classic" looks and then building in trendy pieces from there.
 

FairShake

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I've learned fit and color matter more on me than expense and "fanciness" of my clothes.

http://www.realmenrealstyle.com/color-wheel-menswear/
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_200/222_fashion_advice.html

The color wheel comes from the mind of Issac Newton so, you know, science and stuff. As a pale-skinned guy I dropped the loud and light colors that I sometimes used to wear and went with alot of Navy, dark green, khaki, and maroon. I usually base the outfit around one of those colors and add something lighter for contrast but smaller than the base color.

As for fit one truism seemed to work for me. Whatever size you currently wear, go one less. Assuming you are American, a decade and a half of Hip Hop dominance has left us utterly clueless in sartorial sense. While the music may be fading some the clothes haven't yet. Don't be afraid of slim jeans. The kind of guys in baggy jeans and jerseys who laugh at slimmer jeans are only touching their bro that night with a hi-five.

If you do want to spruce it up a little here you go

http://www.primermagazine.com/tag/the-getup

That said, for guys, the classics work best. Hipster and bro-hop won't last because they just aren't that good. Stick with what has gotten men laid for generations.

As for wearing "statement shirts" with labels on them most fashion guys recommend not to. I say go ahead as long as the labels are congruent with who you are. Don't wear surfing shirts if you don't surf or motorcycle shirts if you aren't a biker like douches do. But if it is an element of your personality it can help start conversations wherever you go.
 

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Custom Stitchers can deliver you the shirts that match to your personality.
 

Huffman

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There was a huge thread about fashion from, I think, PrettyBoyAJ or something. Use google search with the "site:sosuave.net" switch.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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