"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fashion

Maeisgood

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I wish there was a fashion forum here. I think clothes are boring so I know little about them, but I've noticed women pay me a lot more attention when I'm dressed well.

For casual settings (bars, etc.) does wearing a souvenir T-shirt from a faraway place (another continent or Caribbean Island) look cheesy or does it make you look like an interesting person? A shirt from far away isn’t cheap either when you consider the cost of getting there and back!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vice

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The problem is that fashion is a moving target.

You can't go wrong with starting with "classic" looks and then building in trendy pieces from there.
 

FairShake

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I've learned fit and color matter more on me than expense and "fanciness" of my clothes.

http://www.realmenrealstyle.com/color-wheel-menswear/
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_200/222_fashion_advice.html

The color wheel comes from the mind of Issac Newton so, you know, science and stuff. As a pale-skinned guy I dropped the loud and light colors that I sometimes used to wear and went with alot of Navy, dark green, khaki, and maroon. I usually base the outfit around one of those colors and add something lighter for contrast but smaller than the base color.

As for fit one truism seemed to work for me. Whatever size you currently wear, go one less. Assuming you are American, a decade and a half of Hip Hop dominance has left us utterly clueless in sartorial sense. While the music may be fading some the clothes haven't yet. Don't be afraid of slim jeans. The kind of guys in baggy jeans and jerseys who laugh at slimmer jeans are only touching their bro that night with a hi-five.

If you do want to spruce it up a little here you go

http://www.primermagazine.com/tag/the-getup

That said, for guys, the classics work best. Hipster and bro-hop won't last because they just aren't that good. Stick with what has gotten men laid for generations.

As for wearing "statement shirts" with labels on them most fashion guys recommend not to. I say go ahead as long as the labels are congruent with who you are. Don't wear surfing shirts if you don't surf or motorcycle shirts if you aren't a biker like douches do. But if it is an element of your personality it can help start conversations wherever you go.
 

jhonathan

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Custom Stitchers can deliver you the shirts that match to your personality.
 

Huffman

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There was a huge thread about fashion from, I think, PrettyBoyAJ or something. Use google search with the "site:sosuave.net" switch.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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