Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Word. Can you believe this ugly ass Hardy jacket's original price was $658?!?Drewskie said:I was literally stunned when I found out those piece of sh!t t-shirts sell for around 80 bucks, thats just assenine.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Probably made by the same kids too!speakeasy said:JJ, I'm sure you can find some knock offs somewhere if you look around hard enough. I bought some fake Diesel jeans in Thailand for $15. Look and feel just as good as the real thing.
Hey, they're getting paid. Life would be worse for them if they had a $0 income.theunflushables said:Probably made by the same kids too!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I read ALL of jae's articles. He's a pimp, the dude knows a lot of stuff, not just about style.speakeasy said:This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/
speakeasy said:This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/