"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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(JJ)

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i really like ed hardy.

its really expensive.

so my question is: what have you guys found that looks like ed hardy, feels like ed hardy, smells like ed hardy, but is not expensive like ed hardy?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I bought a few tshirts recently that have tattoo-like designs on them, though not a crazy looking as the hardy shirts, I don't like all that colorful stuff with skulls and things. I paid between $8-$20 for mine. One of them I found at a 2nd hand store called Buffalo Exchange that is sort of a trendy thriftshop, that was the one I got for $8. You might want to see if you have such a store in your town.
 

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Check out Nordstrom's Rack, they have designer stuff for a lot cheaper. Just picked up a Ben Sherman button down and skinny tie for 40 dollars.
 

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Ed hardy is wack. save your money and buy clothes that will stay in style for more then one year.
 

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Ask yourself why you like Ed Hardy, is it because everyone else does? I wouldn't be caught dead in the stuff myself, I think the designs are horrible for one, and everyone has them. I was literally stunned when I found out those piece of sh!t t-shirts sell for around 80 bucks, thats just assenine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow!!!! I swear, things like that make me lose all faith in human beings, are people that easily influenced that they will spend money on garbage like that because of good marketing? Monkies!! The worst part is, the dudes I see wearing that trash, look like they spent their entire paycheck on those crappy shirts.
 

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hahaha im not disagreeing that they're overpriced, but i do like some of the designs. which leads me to my original point. i want it for cheaper. :) this thread is not very intelligent. I admit fault. i was just frustrated because i had just gotten home from the store and I was coming to the realization i couldnt afford it. haha thanks for the help though gents :D
 

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Honestly man, not to be a downer, but you really don't need that stuff. I know it's much easier said than done, but try to come up with your own style, not what everyone else thinks is cool. As far as some cool clothes, try Ross, two of the best dressed guys I know shop there.
 

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JJ, I'm sure you can find some knock offs somewhere if you look around hard enough. I bought some fake Diesel jeans in Thailand for $15. Look and feel just as good as the real thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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speakeasy said:
JJ, I'm sure you can find some knock offs somewhere if you look around hard enough. I bought some fake Diesel jeans in Thailand for $15. Look and feel just as good as the real thing.
Probably made by the same kids too!
 

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Probably made by the same kids too!
Hey, they're getting paid. Life would be worse for them if they had a $0 income.
 

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JJ, bro, I hear you're from houston. you should look for a guy named Liem that goes to your school. I hear he has style.
 

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I don't know wtf ed hardy is... But, if your doing it cause of other people are doing it... Stop it!

If you like that and want to wear it; that is cool. But, I'm not gonna start dressing Emo cause everyone else does it. Thats, a beta male trait. Alpha's lead and chumps follow.

Wear what YOU like, not what other people like.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.

http://www.kinowear.com/blog/
 

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speakeasy said:
This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.

http://www.kinowear.com/blog/
I read ALL of jae's articles. He's a pimp, the dude knows a lot of stuff, not just about style.
 

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speakeasy said:
This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.

http://www.kinowear.com/blog/

good link. thanks bud
 
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