You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Word. Can you believe this ugly ass Hardy jacket's original price was $658?!?Drewskie said:I was literally stunned when I found out those piece of sh!t t-shirts sell for around 80 bucks, thats just assenine.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Probably made by the same kids too!speakeasy said:JJ, I'm sure you can find some knock offs somewhere if you look around hard enough. I bought some fake Diesel jeans in Thailand for $15. Look and feel just as good as the real thing.
Hey, they're getting paid. Life would be worse for them if they had a $0 income.theunflushables said:Probably made by the same kids too!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I read ALL of jae's articles. He's a pimp, the dude knows a lot of stuff, not just about style.speakeasy said:This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/
speakeasy said:This is a seriously good blog on men's fashion, and also touches on game and living to your potential as well. I recently discovered it and am backtracking reading every article. Everyone should bookmark this. Now.
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/