Fascinating contradiction: shy but flashy

[meinelaster]

I am married in my 40s and enjoy a small harem on the side. She is married in her 30s and she dresses unambiguously sexually in a way that must get her a lot of attention. At the same time, she is the pinnacle of shyness. Her eye contact to my direction runs the gamit of short looks, very long looks to avoidance. In all cases, she looks down when she sees me. I asked her out directly where I got a sharp angry rebuke, followed however by more signs of marked shyness rather than indifference.

What do you make of her? My plan is to add her to my life as a full scale girlfriend, like other married women in my harem.

Especially I never before came across a combination of extreme shyness with attention getting (though classy) attire.

 

[dustmuffin]

Why are you trying to screw up someone's marriage? You want multiple wpmen? Get a divorce and date single women.

 

[meinelaster]

Shrugging my shoulders. I have adventures with married women with no moral qualms. My longest standing is a few years and continues to add fun and meaning to life.

 

[Tictac]

Troll.

 

[meinelaster]

Affairs add meaning to life?

Yes my affairs add meaning to my life. They are love based.

 

[meinelaster]

Troll.

Its always highly amusing to find individuals who respond to sth they dont like with an insult.

 

[Tictac]

Its always highly amusing to find individuals who respond to sth they dont like with an insult.

Proof of trolldom.

Ignored.

 

[meinelaster]

Proof of trolldom.

Ignored.

Ignored, too. Shaking head.

For the non moralistic adults here, I look for insights into a personality that is at once shy and flashy.

 

[dustmuffin]

Ignored, too. Shaking head.

For the non moralistic adults here, I look for insights into a personality that is at once shy and flashy.

We may game women but most on here have some morals. Don't f uck up another mans marriage is one. I'm done..

 

[meinelaster]

We may game women but most on here have some morals. Don't f uck up another mans marriage is one. I'm done..

 

[meinelaster]

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Good. The sooner the morality police has finished with their indignation, adults can chime in on the actual topic.

 

[zekko]

I don't see how you can make someone a "full time girlfriend" when you are spinning other plates AND are married. Sounds like definitively part time to me.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Meinelaster,
I don't comment on morality,who am I to judge?...but on the seeming contradiction of a woman who averts her gaze but deliberately wears seductive gear,she will be easy meat...Probably not the sex that she needs but the assurance that she is lovely and desirable...So just a comment on how alluring her dress is and her clothes sense and you will open her up...easy on the ****y and funny though!

 

[meinelaster]

I don't see how you can make someone a "full time girlfriend" when you are spinning other plates AND are married. Sounds like definitively part time to me.

You misread. I said "full scale". Meaning on par with my wife on bringing meaning to my life with a soul level connection and intimacy. That limits me to three or four women that are chosen carefully.

 

[meinelaster]

Probably not the sex that she needs but the assurance that she is lovely and desirable

Thats one possibility I like. She isn't easy and that's good as I WANT her to ponder the emotional whirlwind of entering an affair. She is warm hearted and that's a must for me. A warm hearted woman is unlikely to turn on you.

 

[sodbuster]

Depends on the morality of the area. In my home town, a guy was sniffing around a married woman and was found dead on the beach. Ruled a suicide by the local Sheriff. About 100 miles away, ranchers caught some cattle rustlers. Drug one to death and hung the other one. Sheriff ruled murder/ suicide. Play your own games, but don't come here complaining when your life blows up