"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fapping, Junk Food & Social Media; The three horseman of the male apocalypse

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last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker said:
last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
nothing wrong with indulging yourself once in a while, especially if you workout and keep in shape the rest of the time
 

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Add drinking I didn't have a drink for 2 weeks felt great got hammered last night and must say drinking is overrated and I will quit forever i'm done
 
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I for the most part agree with this. However there are some exceptions. Everyone is different.

1. Porn; "can" be as much of a stimulant as drugs the problem is that it is much more accepted, which I believe is why people are in denial about it being a problem. Also it takes time to develop into a problem it doesn't happen over night.

Problems as I see them;

- How much time you invest into finding that "perfect" scene which could be used in finding an actual women or bettering yourself as a Man.

-Progression of kinks due to the breasts and booties not working for you anymore which leads to more and more sometimes self destructive habits to get a boner (I don't mean all kinks either, and if it floats your boat by all means go for it this is merely a suggestion)

-Sex in real life is more mundane not as exciting.

There are many more problems that again "can" occur. They may not happen over night but for most they will I believe with over stimulation. This is not to say to stop completely but much like booze and other things in life moderation.

Also another interesting thing (not to say I agree with this but interesting none the less) Some people see sperm as a major life force. Wasting it masturbating is as cutting years off your life. They see sperm purely for creating another life form and learn to have sex with out ejaculating. Something to think about.

Anyways that's just some idea's on the P0rn & ma$turbation
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skinnyguy

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Well then alpha males are losing many of their years cause they are having sex 3-4 times a day.
 
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