"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fapping, Junk Food & Social Media; The three horseman of the male apocalypse

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last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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foreverAFC

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backbreaker said:
last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
nothing wrong with indulging yourself once in a while, especially if you workout and keep in shape the rest of the time
 

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Add drinking I didn't have a drink for 2 weeks felt great got hammered last night and must say drinking is overrated and I will quit forever i'm done
 
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I for the most part agree with this. However there are some exceptions. Everyone is different.

1. Porn; "can" be as much of a stimulant as drugs the problem is that it is much more accepted, which I believe is why people are in denial about it being a problem. Also it takes time to develop into a problem it doesn't happen over night.

Problems as I see them;

- How much time you invest into finding that "perfect" scene which could be used in finding an actual women or bettering yourself as a Man.

-Progression of kinks due to the breasts and booties not working for you anymore which leads to more and more sometimes self destructive habits to get a boner (I don't mean all kinks either, and if it floats your boat by all means go for it this is merely a suggestion)

-Sex in real life is more mundane not as exciting.

There are many more problems that again "can" occur. They may not happen over night but for most they will I believe with over stimulation. This is not to say to stop completely but much like booze and other things in life moderation.

Also another interesting thing (not to say I agree with this but interesting none the less) Some people see sperm as a major life force. Wasting it masturbating is as cutting years off your life. They see sperm purely for creating another life form and learn to have sex with out ejaculating. Something to think about.

Anyways that's just some idea's on the P0rn & ma$turbation
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy

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Well then alpha males are losing many of their years cause they are having sex 3-4 times a day.
 
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