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Fapping, Junk Food & Social Media; The three horseman of the male apocalypse

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last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
 

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backbreaker said:
last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
nothing wrong with indulging yourself once in a while, especially if you workout and keep in shape the rest of the time
 

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Add drinking I didn't have a drink for 2 weeks felt great got hammered last night and must say drinking is overrated and I will quit forever i'm done
 

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This was a great post bb. Gives me a moment to self-assess on these three habits.

1. Fapping and porn. I've noticed it can be habit-forming. The less I fap, the less I think about it. Sometimes I'll go more than a week without a release and say to myself, "I should probably make time for that tonight." Ha. Other times I've been in the every-day habit, which I don't think is good. As for porn, it used to be an indulgence, but today online it is something that will rewire your brain. You used to have to find a way to get your hands on a nudie mag. You had to leave your house and interact with people to do this; Playboys didn't just pop up under your mattress. I heard a statistic recently that more young Americans would choose a computer over a car, given the choice. Imagine that - having a car gives you all kinds of freedom and opportunity to mingle with the opposite sex. Having a computer gives you instant access to two-dimensional images of all variety. It's junk food for the brain and glands, and I do my best to avoid it.

2. Junk food. I'm pretty good about this. I live in NYC where fast food is terrible. Whenever I'm outside the city I'll indulge in fast food because it's clean and customer-friendly LOL. I stay away from deep fried crap though. I don't eat much red meat, and I definitely use more olive oil than butter. My breakfasts are protein and fruit smoothies. My kryptonite is salty snacks, chips and salsa, or potato chips....and cheese. And I put sugar in my coffee which is the kiss of death so I'm trying to substitute with honey or agave. However I'll add that I cook 80% of the time and buy a lot of fresh stuff. I drink wine, beer during summer, but I detest hangovers so I'm always careful not to overdo it. I do have a high tolerance though.

3. Social media. I'm not on FB or Twitter. I use Wordpress to blog which is technically social media, but it at least feels constructive.

These are more pitfalls than horsemen but that's just semantics. They're easy traps to fall into if you're not careful.
 
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I for the most part agree with this. However there are some exceptions. Everyone is different.

1. Porn; "can" be as much of a stimulant as drugs the problem is that it is much more accepted, which I believe is why people are in denial about it being a problem. Also it takes time to develop into a problem it doesn't happen over night.

Problems as I see them;

- How much time you invest into finding that "perfect" scene which could be used in finding an actual women or bettering yourself as a Man.

-Progression of kinks due to the breasts and booties not working for you anymore which leads to more and more sometimes self destructive habits to get a boner (I don't mean all kinks either, and if it floats your boat by all means go for it this is merely a suggestion)

-Sex in real life is more mundane not as exciting.

There are many more problems that again "can" occur. They may not happen over night but for most they will I believe with over stimulation. This is not to say to stop completely but much like booze and other things in life moderation.

Also another interesting thing (not to say I agree with this but interesting none the less) Some people see sperm as a major life force. Wasting it masturbating is as cutting years off your life. They see sperm purely for creating another life form and learn to have sex with out ejaculating. Something to think about.

Anyways that's just some idea's on the P0rn & ma$turbation
 

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Well then alpha males are losing many of their years cause they are having sex 3-4 times a day.
 
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