"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fapping, Junk Food & Social Media; The three horseman of the male apocalypse

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last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker said:
last night I ate half a pineapple, bacon and ham pizza, some cheesesticks, and about half a bottle of johnny walker blue lol. oh and pancakes.

today i am useless. like walking around the house for me is just taking up all my energy.. i'm craving water and a baked sweet potato.

i don't see how people at like this, like, all the time. i won't eat like that again utnil my son's birthday in may
nothing wrong with indulging yourself once in a while, especially if you workout and keep in shape the rest of the time
 

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Add drinking I didn't have a drink for 2 weeks felt great got hammered last night and must say drinking is overrated and I will quit forever i'm done
 
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I for the most part agree with this. However there are some exceptions. Everyone is different.

1. Porn; "can" be as much of a stimulant as drugs the problem is that it is much more accepted, which I believe is why people are in denial about it being a problem. Also it takes time to develop into a problem it doesn't happen over night.

Problems as I see them;

- How much time you invest into finding that "perfect" scene which could be used in finding an actual women or bettering yourself as a Man.

-Progression of kinks due to the breasts and booties not working for you anymore which leads to more and more sometimes self destructive habits to get a boner (I don't mean all kinks either, and if it floats your boat by all means go for it this is merely a suggestion)

-Sex in real life is more mundane not as exciting.

There are many more problems that again "can" occur. They may not happen over night but for most they will I believe with over stimulation. This is not to say to stop completely but much like booze and other things in life moderation.

Also another interesting thing (not to say I agree with this but interesting none the less) Some people see sperm as a major life force. Wasting it masturbating is as cutting years off your life. They see sperm purely for creating another life form and learn to have sex with out ejaculating. Something to think about.

Anyways that's just some idea's on the P0rn & ma$turbation
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well then alpha males are losing many of their years cause they are having sex 3-4 times a day.
 
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