This must be a troll post. Honestly if I ever found out a woman hired a PI when we started dating I would dump her immediately. This comes off as psycho behavior.
I mean who the hell hires a PI to learn about someone instead of just spending some time getting to know the person??
Back,
each and every one I tried trusting without verifying.
I have never done my own investigating.
Never touched a boyfriend's cell or mail or opened anything...even if alone.
Each one eventually revealed lies.
All that wasted time Back.... I'd rather just drop 5,000 and learn in the first month what would have taken years.
What's another idea?
How do I get better at judging?
I have looked directly and deeply into my mate's eyes and had them lie bluntly to me.
Just chalk it up to bad luck?
I'm not comfortable disrespecting by touching their phone or things.
P.I. is a legal and ethical method.