I have yet to date a girl as a non-afc. I remember the feelings I had when I "fell" for a girl, and it felt great, but those feelings in themselves ruined the relationship. Does a Don Juan get to feel that way and he just controls himself better? Because it just seems like being a Don Juan involves a loss of emotion and that is not a good thing. Anyone have an answer?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"falling" for a girl
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Who says a loss of emotion is a bad thing?
a don juan doesn't get too emotional with a girl because he knows there are a billions others out there. Getting too emotional for a girl only leads to trouble and pain.
a don juan doesn't get too emotional with a girl because he knows there are a billions others out there. Getting too emotional for a girl only leads to trouble and pain.
Scoiland
Senior Don Juan
i don't agree with that what so ever
a don juan is more about being someone who can approach people and get to be with different types of girls to really understand what you want in life
that is the point of dating and going with different types of girls., to see what you want
if you are falling for a girl great, you found what you are looking for supposibily and becoming a don juan has helped you accomplish that
a don juan is more about being someone who can approach people and get to be with different types of girls to really understand what you want in life
that is the point of dating and going with different types of girls., to see what you want
if you are falling for a girl great, you found what you are looking for supposibily and becoming a don juan has helped you accomplish that
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
Ignore this Don Juan label for a minute and focus on what it really means.
To be human is to have and experience emotion.
How you act on those emotions is another thing.
Self control and having a rational perspective is the key.
Self esteem and self worth also help to keep yourself in check.
In terms of seduction, if women can percieve that you have a strong sense of self esteem, inner strength and value then she will love you more. We are the protectors and hunters, that is the genetic and psychological expectation. And like physical strength, strength of mind and character is important for the same purpose.
This dictomy is what attracts women to men.
Don't mistake wussy behaviour with passion though. Telling her I love each day on the phone is wu$$y. Spontaneously looking deep in her eyes and then taking her into a match of tonsil wrestling is passion.
Kaine
To be human is to have and experience emotion.
How you act on those emotions is another thing.
Self control and having a rational perspective is the key.
Self esteem and self worth also help to keep yourself in check.
In terms of seduction, if women can percieve that you have a strong sense of self esteem, inner strength and value then she will love you more. We are the protectors and hunters, that is the genetic and psychological expectation. And like physical strength, strength of mind and character is important for the same purpose.
This dictomy is what attracts women to men.
Don't mistake wussy behaviour with passion though. Telling her I love each day on the phone is wu$$y. Spontaneously looking deep in her eyes and then taking her into a match of tonsil wrestling is passion.
Kaine
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
I love the feeling of falling for someone. The thing is, you gotta know what to do with that feeling.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
exactly...dont listen to anyone who tells you FALLING is a bad thing.
being a DJ has nothing to do with that..you cant help THE REAL EMOTIONS YOU FEEL WHEN THIS HAPPENS.
if you fall for a great girl..dont lose ur dj traits..dont turn afc to appease her or try to hard..just relax and have fun with it.
I am talking to someone..that I have feelings for...and its differnt then the other girls ive meet recently...but as DJ ive gotten to meet a variety..and for somereason im more emotionally attached to this one!
so good luck
being a DJ has nothing to do with that..you cant help THE REAL EMOTIONS YOU FEEL WHEN THIS HAPPENS.
if you fall for a great girl..dont lose ur dj traits..dont turn afc to appease her or try to hard..just relax and have fun with it.
I am talking to someone..that I have feelings for...and its differnt then the other girls ive meet recently...but as DJ ive gotten to meet a variety..and for somereason im more emotionally attached to this one!
so good luck
Passion is a good thing. Falling for a girl is a good thing.
I wouldn't tell her the depth of your feelings too soon or too often.
Don't let yourself get carried away with your feelings for her, otherwise she controls you and how you feel.
AZ
I wouldn't tell her the depth of your feelings too soon or too often.
Don't let yourself get carried away with your feelings for her, otherwise she controls you and how you feel.
AZ
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no....! first off falling should be changed with..rapid growth of an emotional attachment.
2nd. one-I-tis iis when a guy breaks is backbown..and gives into a women, he plays the role of a boyfriend..when in reality she is using him for whatever reason..and he doesnt see this
2nd. one-I-tis iis when a guy breaks is backbown..and gives into a women, he plays the role of a boyfriend..when in reality she is using him for whatever reason..and he doesnt see this