falling for a FB

[sav]

im trying hard not to fall for an FB, in my previous thread i got some good advice on this matter, but what are some good ways of staying emotionally detached from somebody that you are intimate with, share everything with, and see very often..

i realized that im falling for her when i saw her with another guy, i broke off contact with her for a little bit, until she managed to reach me, crying and saying how much she needs me and how she didnt think it would hurt me etc...

i know i need to stay detached (if i want to continue the FB situation) or to just end the whole thing...

thanks for any input

 

[spider_007]

meet other women.

 

[woods]

That sux you saw her with someone else. You may not be falling for her, but being territorial. I dont wanna see my FB's with anyone else, or even hear about it for that matter. Even though Im not attached, I dont wanna know about them and anyone else, and it does bother me. Its a man thing.

im trying hard not to fall for an FB, in my previous thread i got some good advice on this matter, but what are some good ways of staying emotionally detached from somebody that you are intimate with, share everything with, and see very often..

If you "share everything with, and see very often," its more than an FB thing.
You two need to have a talk, cuz she might want more too, if she was crying over you.

 

[Fenderules]

agree with meet other woman. i say she's trouble. maby give it a week to see wut happens. but if she goes out with other guys all the time and is a flirt then **** it. you dont want the drama in your life. its bad karma

 

[I Want To Be a Playa]

refresh my memory, what is an FB?

 

[Fenderules]

f u c k b u d d y

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

im trying hard not to fall for an FB, in my previous thread i got some good advice on this matter, but what are some good ways of staying emotionally detached from somebody that you are intimate with, share everything with, and see very often..

Ummm, hate to tell you this but that isn't a FB. You're treating her as a GF and that's why you are falling for her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

refresh my memory, what is an FB?

Foos-Ball

 

[Fenderules]

lol ^


or "friendly *****"

 

[I Want To Be a Playa]

oh damn, thats not good then. keep your **** buddy a **** buddy, if not find a new one.

 

[woods]

Either have the "talk" or meet more chicks. Is she your only FB? Youre not her only one obviously. You're both free to go for other people, so you cant be mad at her, but you have the right to cut off contact too. Or you can downgrade her to Bootycall status, meaning no contact unless your really horny. That should be no more than once, maybe twice a month.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah that sounds good.


if you **** all the time, sooner or later one party will usually fall. dont let it be you if she's slutt'n out

 

[Nexus Polaris]

Foos-Ball

I was going to say fat *****.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah well i got one of those after me ^^^

sucks balls

 

[azanon]

Ummm, hate to tell you this but that isn't a FB. You're treating her as a GF and that's why you are falling for her.

Bingo! We have a winner!

 

[Oxide]

Formidable Bachelor

FB is only there for sex. You spend time with her, and after you nut you get out the door. More strings than that and you are in the trap, taking her to dinner putting clothes on her back.

I should be a musician!

 

[sav]

i have no problem meeting other women, i go out on dates all the time ... lately i have a diminished desire to see other women (other then her).

i'll have a serious chat with her, depending on how that goes, she's either out of my life, or fully in it...

thanks for the advice fella's... appreciate it..

 

[pvf94]

I came in her thinking the thread title was "Falling for a fat *****" LOL

Instead of HB

 

[dipset_mafia]

I recently had a **** buddy, really hot chick... one of those bar chicks that seem to be connected to the scene, bar owners, promotion companies, etc... anyways, smoking hot, but I knew her M.O. , she's promiscious, she thinks she's really manipulative, but if you aren't putting that ***** on a pedestal her games crumble faaast lol... ANYWAYS..

She was giving me the "I really with you would call me more often, and come to my house!" or... "I don't want a boyfriend, you know, just someone that calls me and comes to my house, you know?" lol... The situation was great for me.. she'd call me nightly and come to my house to get banged the fvck out.. I even spent like 20 minutes on the phone arguing with her cause i was busy and didn't want to bone her one night... anyways... she gave me that ultimatum... and I peaced!

I stopped calling, I chilled... even when it was happening i gave her ice when she gave me emotions, learned her that she wasn't LTR material for me... she eventually stopped calling lol.... and you know what happened???

this ended in november

recently she MSN's me talking about how she wants to hook up and all that (games), i tell her to cut the BS and state her intentions, she tells me she has a new guy but shes always thinking about me etc and she realyl liked me when we were hooking up.... I tell her straight up i wasn't looking for a rltshp in nov, she gets all upset..

fvck her, she's a peice of a$$ and thats how I will always treat her

bottom line is... it's not a Fvck BUDDY if you are "intimate" and not in the sexual sense, in that emotional sense... you have to have ICE game to make sure you aren't leading these birds on, or just be honest... or you can be a d!ck and lie your face off and end up really hurting someone

 

[Jay Jay]

Hey Sav

I agree with woods. You should talk to her.

But first you should sit down and think what you really want.

Good luck bro.

JJ