"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wasn't 100% on where to post this, looks like Health and Fitness appeared to fit the bill most.

So I'm fed up of being pale. I have a very light complexion and don't tan easily at all and with summer approaching I thought I'd look into the confusing world of fake tans. What brand(s) would you reccomend to someone such as myself? Are there any particular side effects to fake tanning?

Thanks in advance
Adam
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't think anything's wrong with it, just make sure you apply it evenly. Definitely a lot safer than the real thing.

I'm fair skinned too, and I recommend just getting in shape and being comfortable in your own skin. Don't worry about being tan. Leave that to the women.
 

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speed dawg said:
Don't worry about being tan. Leave that to the women.

Then laugh at their premature wrinkles in their 30s and 40s. Or at 27 or 28.
 

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that stuff turned me orange one time.
tried the spray tan, and it was great, until it rained and it streaked!
 

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Summer's approaching eh? I thought it was already here ;)
I find just playing sports outside, or doing yardwork without my shirt works on getting rid of my farmer's tan in no time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penkitten said:
that stuff turned me orange one time.
tried the spray tan, and it was great, until it rained and it streaked!
Yeah I was eating at friendlies (a restaurant those not familiar) with my coworkers when I noticed one of the female servers must have used some spray tan stuff too.. and it looked bad. She could have been the mascot for Florida oranges. :D
 

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Kidfabulous said:
Summer's approaching eh? I thought it was already here ;)
Not over here in sunny 'ole England :yawn:

I do appreciate the fact that staining my skin a darker colour will not, in the long run, make me any more...self acceptant shall we say. As I say though, while I'm not albino, I do have light skin - I don't tan, I burn :)p). I'm not looking for anything drastic here, not by any means, just something to take away the edge of pastyness from my complexion (despite my current state of healthiness) simply for some short term confidence boost, I guess. It is undeniable a healthy looking tan is more attractive.

Anyone have any specific brands they could reccomend, as, unsurprisingly, I want to avoid streaky, orange 'tans' at all costs. I heard Nivea do some pretty good, 'mild' stuff - not sure if you have that over in the states?
 

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Those spray-on tans can be spotted a mile away. It's summer, get out in the sun. Just make sure you throw on some SPF 8 so you get a safe, gradual tan instead of frying. Heck, even the electric beach in moderation is better than a "tan from a can".
 

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Dude, I use L'Oreal Sublime Bronze every other day on my face, neck, and arms. Using it every other day gives me a light tan. I researched the active ingredient (all fake tanners use the same active ingredient) and it is FDA-ok'd... just keep it off your lips and eyelids. Much safer than a real tan or a tanning bed. In fact, according to the FDA, it is 100% safe.

Used in moderation, it looks natural and generally does not come off with sweat or water. If you use it too much (i.e., everyday) you will look too tan (do a google seach on Charlie Crist, governor of Florida to see what I mean) and the stuff will come off much more easily.

It works by dying your dead skins cells, and that is why you need to use it every other day to maintain it.
 

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tihash said:
Dude, I use L'Oreal Sublime Bronze every other day on my face, neck, and arms. Using it every other day gives me a light tan. I researched the active ingredient (all fake tanners use the same active ingredient) and it is FDA-ok'd... just keep it off your lips and eyelids. Much safer than a real tan or a tanning bed. In fact, according to the FDA, it is 100% safe.

Used in moderation, it looks natural and generally does not come off with sweat or water. If you use it too much (i.e., everyday) you will look too tan (do a google seach on Charlie Crist, governor of Florida to see what I mean) and the stuff will come off much more easily.

It works by dying your dead skins cells, and that is why you need to use it every other day to maintain it.
Great. Thanks alot mate; exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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