"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Faithfulness worries

caicer

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I do well picking up women, even married ones or with boyfriends.

My problem is that now, I am worried that my girlfriend could also be unfaithful to me when I am not around; just like these other women I go out with.

How should I deal with this dilemma ? What should be my mindset, what do you recommend ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, what goes around comes around but anyway man you just have to pay close attention to your gut instinct.

If it gives you an ominous warning feeling about her or that her behaviour has changed towards you for the worse or even sometimes better than its ever been be on your guard.
 

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Avoid hors, and only date girls who show consistently high interest levels.
 

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I've run into this problem before. I would always cheat on the girls I was with. Doing this made me feel that they were doing the same. It drove me crazy.

In the end, turned out that they didn't do anything and it was my paranoia. Don't want the feeling that they might be cheating? Don't cheat. Simple
 

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caicer said:
I do well picking up women, even married ones or with boyfriends.

My problem is that now, I am worried that my girlfriend could also be unfaithful to me when I am not around; just like these other women I go out with.

How should I deal with this dilemma ? What should be my mindset, what do you recommend ?
Do not be paranoid. Whether you cheat or not, hoes will cheat!:rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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caicer

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Ok, Thanks a lot guys.
What I think is that I shouldn't fall in love, if I dont have feelings for a girl I couldn't care less what she does when I'm not around.
 

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so you cheat and you're worried about your girl cheating?!!
Right .... are you trolling?
 
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