"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Faithfulness worries

caicer

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I do well picking up women, even married ones or with boyfriends.

My problem is that now, I am worried that my girlfriend could also be unfaithful to me when I am not around; just like these other women I go out with.

How should I deal with this dilemma ? What should be my mindset, what do you recommend ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, what goes around comes around but anyway man you just have to pay close attention to your gut instinct.

If it gives you an ominous warning feeling about her or that her behaviour has changed towards you for the worse or even sometimes better than its ever been be on your guard.
 

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Avoid hors, and only date girls who show consistently high interest levels.
 

kdnash82

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I've run into this problem before. I would always cheat on the girls I was with. Doing this made me feel that they were doing the same. It drove me crazy.

In the end, turned out that they didn't do anything and it was my paranoia. Don't want the feeling that they might be cheating? Don't cheat. Simple
 

ducaro

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caicer said:
I do well picking up women, even married ones or with boyfriends.

My problem is that now, I am worried that my girlfriend could also be unfaithful to me when I am not around; just like these other women I go out with.

How should I deal with this dilemma ? What should be my mindset, what do you recommend ?
Do not be paranoid. Whether you cheat or not, hoes will cheat!:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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caicer

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Ok, Thanks a lot guys.
What I think is that I shouldn't fall in love, if I dont have feelings for a girl I couldn't care less what she does when I'm not around.
 

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so you cheat and you're worried about your girl cheating?!!
Right .... are you trolling?
 
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