"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Faithfulness worries

caicer

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I do well picking up women, even married ones or with boyfriends.

My problem is that now, I am worried that my girlfriend could also be unfaithful to me when I am not around; just like these other women I go out with.

How should I deal with this dilemma ? What should be my mindset, what do you recommend ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, what goes around comes around but anyway man you just have to pay close attention to your gut instinct.

If it gives you an ominous warning feeling about her or that her behaviour has changed towards you for the worse or even sometimes better than its ever been be on your guard.
 

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Avoid hors, and only date girls who show consistently high interest levels.
 

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I've run into this problem before. I would always cheat on the girls I was with. Doing this made me feel that they were doing the same. It drove me crazy.

In the end, turned out that they didn't do anything and it was my paranoia. Don't want the feeling that they might be cheating? Don't cheat. Simple
 

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caicer said:
I do well picking up women, even married ones or with boyfriends.

My problem is that now, I am worried that my girlfriend could also be unfaithful to me when I am not around; just like these other women I go out with.

How should I deal with this dilemma ? What should be my mindset, what do you recommend ?
Do not be paranoid. Whether you cheat or not, hoes will cheat!:rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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caicer

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Ok, Thanks a lot guys.
What I think is that I shouldn't fall in love, if I dont have feelings for a girl I couldn't care less what she does when I'm not around.
 

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so you cheat and you're worried about your girl cheating?!!
Right .... are you trolling?
 
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