"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Failed **** Test Badly, salvage?

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Gf texted:
GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient ;)
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u
3 hrs later as was at work after attempted to turn it around with next text
ME: Gd cos i like the date
GF: Weirdo ;)

NC initiated to regain some ground. BUT i have already planned to see her on a day, and so will av to be the first to initiate what time in the day im picking her up.

Any advice how to salvage, as me continuing NC will make me look butt hurt if i just ignore the plan made to pick her up, from wot i can see its a lose lose situation now
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pipe007

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dude are you like 10??
this was not a test.. just random playing around on her part cuz she was probably bored....

no normal human being would make another person postpone their birthday... and if you fail this.. oh well you are beyond AFC

the only part when she may have tested you is when she said
Her: I might forget your birthday
to which I would have replied:
ME: "who are you again?"

you failed.
 

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pipe007 said:
dude are you like 10??
this was not a test.. just random playing around on her part cuz she was probably bored....

no normal human being would make another person postpone their birthday... and if you fail this.. oh well you are beyond AFC

the only part when she may have tested you is when she said
Her: I might forget your birthday
to which I would have replied:
ME: "who are you again?"

you failed.
It turned into one when me saying "Im not convinced" and her INSTANTLY replying "Im not trying to convince you"

3 hours go by me not replying (which made me look like im sulking)
Then i reply, attempted to turn it around by replying "Gd cos i like the date" which completely changes everything of the convo and the frame off the "i might forget ur bday" part of the text

3 hours later she replies "weirdo ;)"
 

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i think she was playing around too.

Not everything that confuses you is a sh!t test!!!

Reading this site may make it hard to believe that, but believe it or not, girls do have personalities, they can be quirky, funny, playful and they dont mind if you make fun of them, as long as you can take it and roll with it when they do the same to you!!

The only thing tested here was your sense of humor, and how you respond to a little banter!

NEWSFLASH!!! - this girl texted you about your birthday. shes thinking about you, more importantly an event in your life that she expects to be a part of

maybe she had some new plans arrive -then she remembered your birthday
she texted you, to let you know this

why is it inconvenient? if it didnt matter to her, then she would carry on with her own plans, and noy joke about forgetting it.

You're getting butthurt over a compliment. read between the lines.

Peace.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol at OP after reading pipe and purefilth's comments. lol. OP she is your girlfriend. she initiated contact. and even gave u a wink. what's the prob?

ah well.
 

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pipe007 said:
dude are you like 10??
this was not a test.. just random playing around on her part cuz she was probably bored....

no normal human being would make another person postpone their birthday... and if you fail this.. oh well you are beyond AFC

the only part when she may have tested you is when she said
Her: I might forget your birthday
to which I would have replied:
ME: "who are you again?"

you failed.
this
 

cordoncordon

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Gf texted:
GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient ;)
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u
3 hrs later as was at work after attempted to turn it around with next text
ME: Gd cos i like the date
GF: Weirdo ;)

NC initiated to regain some ground. BUT i have already planned to see her on a day, and so will av to be the first to initiate what time in the day im picking her up.

Any advice how to salvage, as me continuing NC will make me look butt hurt if i just ignore the plan made to pick her up, from wot i can see its a lose lose situation now
This convo doesn't really make any sense, and I don't know what you are trying to salvage. From what I can tell, she was just teasing you. Relax.
 
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