"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Failed **** Test Badly, salvage?

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Gf texted:
GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient ;)
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u
3 hrs later as was at work after attempted to turn it around with next text
ME: Gd cos i like the date
GF: Weirdo ;)

NC initiated to regain some ground. BUT i have already planned to see her on a day, and so will av to be the first to initiate what time in the day im picking her up.

Any advice how to salvage, as me continuing NC will make me look butt hurt if i just ignore the plan made to pick her up, from wot i can see its a lose lose situation now
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pipe007

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dude are you like 10??
this was not a test.. just random playing around on her part cuz she was probably bored....

no normal human being would make another person postpone their birthday... and if you fail this.. oh well you are beyond AFC

the only part when she may have tested you is when she said
Her: I might forget your birthday
to which I would have replied:
ME: "who are you again?"

you failed.
 

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pipe007 said:
dude are you like 10??
this was not a test.. just random playing around on her part cuz she was probably bored....

no normal human being would make another person postpone their birthday... and if you fail this.. oh well you are beyond AFC

the only part when she may have tested you is when she said
Her: I might forget your birthday
to which I would have replied:
ME: "who are you again?"

you failed.
It turned into one when me saying "Im not convinced" and her INSTANTLY replying "Im not trying to convince you"

3 hours go by me not replying (which made me look like im sulking)
Then i reply, attempted to turn it around by replying "Gd cos i like the date" which completely changes everything of the convo and the frame off the "i might forget ur bday" part of the text

3 hours later she replies "weirdo ;)"
 

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i think she was playing around too.

Not everything that confuses you is a sh!t test!!!

Reading this site may make it hard to believe that, but believe it or not, girls do have personalities, they can be quirky, funny, playful and they dont mind if you make fun of them, as long as you can take it and roll with it when they do the same to you!!

The only thing tested here was your sense of humor, and how you respond to a little banter!

NEWSFLASH!!! - this girl texted you about your birthday. shes thinking about you, more importantly an event in your life that she expects to be a part of

maybe she had some new plans arrive -then she remembered your birthday
she texted you, to let you know this

why is it inconvenient? if it didnt matter to her, then she would carry on with her own plans, and noy joke about forgetting it.

You're getting butthurt over a compliment. read between the lines.

Peace.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol at OP after reading pipe and purefilth's comments. lol. OP she is your girlfriend. she initiated contact. and even gave u a wink. what's the prob?

ah well.
 

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pipe007 said:
dude are you like 10??
this was not a test.. just random playing around on her part cuz she was probably bored....

no normal human being would make another person postpone their birthday... and if you fail this.. oh well you are beyond AFC

the only part when she may have tested you is when she said
Her: I might forget your birthday
to which I would have replied:
ME: "who are you again?"

you failed.
this
 

cordoncordon

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Gf texted:
GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient ;)
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u
3 hrs later as was at work after attempted to turn it around with next text
ME: Gd cos i like the date
GF: Weirdo ;)

NC initiated to regain some ground. BUT i have already planned to see her on a day, and so will av to be the first to initiate what time in the day im picking her up.

Any advice how to salvage, as me continuing NC will make me look butt hurt if i just ignore the plan made to pick her up, from wot i can see its a lose lose situation now
This convo doesn't really make any sense, and I don't know what you are trying to salvage. From what I can tell, she was just teasing you. Relax.
 
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