"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Machine10033

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Last year I almost got myself involved with a woman who claimed her marriage was ending. She literally morphed and portrays all the traits I would want in a woman. Loving, caring, home maker, fitness enthusiast... in the back of my mind I kept saying wtf man you need to bail.. she has kids and had moved her mom into her and her husband’s house. So Distanced myself.... she continued to reach out and I kept distancing myself.

I ghosted her for 2 months and she moved onto another dude. He was married and she was still married. I run into her and this other guy this spring and she immediately tells this poor guy she has an emergency and needs to leave. They both leave the event and she comes back without him and comes over. Gives me **** for ghosting her and starts saying we should be fck buddies. I keep my distance and she keeps reaching out. Now all her messages are about fcking.

She senses I’m not interested in taking her bait and possibly getting trapped with her and her baggage. She goes back to the other dude. They end up getting busted by their significant others.. and both get served with divorce papers. Her husband kicks her, the kids and her mom out... she’s never worked... never paid a bill... never contributed a dime to their marriage.

I have ghosted her for the last 6 months and she continues to email me. Giving me updates that go unanswered.... the other guy is now living with half his salary, lost his house and is now dating this mess. I returned to this forum last year because of this situation and the advice was priceless and snapped me out of my brain fog! Thank you all!!!! God knows what my life would be like now if I didn’t come back here !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last year I almost got myself involved with a woman who claimed her marriage was ending. She literally morphed and portrays all the traits I would want in a woman. Loving, caring, home maker, fitness enthusiast... in the back of my mind I kept saying wtf man you need to bail.. she has kids and had moved her mom into her and her husband’s house. So Distanced myself.... she continued to reach out and I kept distancing myself.

I ghosted her for 2 months and she moved onto another dude. He was married and she was still married. I run into her and this other guy this spring and she immediately tells this poor guy she has an emergency and needs to leave. They both leave the event and she comes back without him and comes over. Gives me **** for ghosting her and starts saying we should be fck buddies. I keep my distance and she keeps reaching out. Now all her messages are about fcking.

She senses I’m not interested in taking her bait and possibly getting trapped with her and her baggage. She goes back to the other dude. They end up getting busted by their significant others.. and both get served with divorce papers. Her husband kicks her, the kids and her mom out... she’s never worked... never paid a bill... never contributed a dime to their marriage.

I have ghosted her for the last 6 months and she continues to email me. Giving me updates that go unanswered.... the other guy is now living with half his salary, lost his house and is now dating this mess. I returned to this forum last year because of this situation and the advice was priceless and snapped me out of my brain fog! Thank you all!!!! God knows what my life would be like now if I didn’t come back here !
Why couldn't you keep banging her? Doesn't mean you have to marry her.
 

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Why couldn't you keep banging her? Doesn't mean you have to marry her.
Could keep banging.... there is much better puss out there though. 35 year old with 3 kids.... after this board woke me up she’s pretty much at the end of the food chain. That should be a last resort 3am Hail Mary!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Could keep banging.... there is much better puss out there though. 35 year old with 3 kids.... after this board woke me up she’s pretty much at the end of the food chain. That should be a last resort 3am Hail Mary!
Something about the mental image of nutting on her face, you own her then. So then when you want the 3am hail mary, guess what, she'll pick up the phone.
 
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