"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Factoids----did U Know.......

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-MOST MARRIAGES FAIL THE FIRST TIME ROUND 57%, INCREASE THAT TO 80% FOR SECOND MARRIAGES.

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS ALSO A SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE LAWYER

-SIR ISAAC NEWTON (scientist) DIED A VIRGIN !

-BARBIE & KEN (the plastic dolls) stayed together for 43 years.

-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-ON AVERAGE MEN FALL IN LOVE IN 4 DATES, WOMEN ABOUT 20

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-MOST PICK UP ARTISTS STARTED OFF AS COMPLETE WUSS-A-HOLICS

-ONLINE DATING AS A WHOLE HAS AROUND A 10% SUCCESS RATE FOR FINDING THE ONE.

-THERE ARE OVER 1400 DIFFERENT INTERNET DATING SITES AS OF 2008

-EVERYDAY 3000 GIRLS TURN 21 IN THE UNITED STATES

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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COD said:
-MOST MARRIAGES FAIL THE FIRST TIME ROUND 57%, INCREASE THAT TO 80% FOR SECOND MARRIAGES.

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS ALSO A SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE LAWYER

-SIR ISAAC NEWTON (scientist) DIED A VIRGIN !

-BARBIE & KEN (the plastic dolls) stayed together for 43 years.

-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-ON AVERAGE MEN FALL IN LOVE IN 4 DATES, WOMEN ABOUT 20

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-MOST PICK UP ARTISTS STARTED OFF AS COMPLETE WUSS-A-HOLICS

-ONLINE DATING AS A WHOLE HAS AROUND A 10% SUCCESS RATE FOR FINDING THE ONE.

-THERE ARE OVER 1400 DIFFERENT INTERNET DATING SITES AS OF 2008

-EVERYDAY 3000 GIRLS TURN 21 IN THE UNITED STATES

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
Some interesting things there like men falling in love in 4 dates as opposed to women in 20... but DJ's are rear.


Furyguy said:
Where'd you get this stat from?
To become a PUA you need to know what you're doing and so why do men study pick up in the first place... because they are AFCs.
 

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People make up statistics all the time. 37% of all people know that.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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COD said:
-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.
I think its half and half. A part of you communicates with your bodylanguage. The other part with your mouth.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I guess even back then, the nerds didn't get any ass.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I think its half and half. A part of you communicates with your bodylanguage. The other part with your mouth.
It's about 55% body language and about 30% voice tone. The rest words. Thats why DJ's can say anthing to a girl when chatting them up and AFC not matter what they say doesn't work if they have AFC body language and voice tone etc
 

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3000 girls turn 21 every day? let's do the math.

300 Million people in america.... Assuming there is exactly the same of people of every age, (which is false, to balance this cutoff is age 67) lets divide 300 by 67 and figure out how many 20 year olds there are.


300,000,000 / 67 = 4,477,611 - Four million. Now 2.25 million is half of that, or just the girls.

2.25 million / 365(the days in a year) to see what the odds are that any one of them is having a birthday.

= 6164 ... . Weird the number checks out actually, since I'm using just rough approximations. Interesting.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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These stats have small amounts of truth to them but no stat sounds 100%

Except i did hear newton died a virgin too. sucks. you think figuring out gravity and what not would "PULL" you in some pvssy

ok lame joke
 

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Abe Lincoln was gay - when a man shares a bed with another man for years there is a probability that someone was getting his pole smoked!
 

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COD said:
-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
You can easily make successful approaches using these statistics. :up:
 
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