Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Factoids----did U Know.......

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-MOST MARRIAGES FAIL THE FIRST TIME ROUND 57%, INCREASE THAT TO 80% FOR SECOND MARRIAGES.

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS ALSO A SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE LAWYER

-SIR ISAAC NEWTON (scientist) DIED A VIRGIN !

-BARBIE & KEN (the plastic dolls) stayed together for 43 years.

-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-ON AVERAGE MEN FALL IN LOVE IN 4 DATES, WOMEN ABOUT 20

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-MOST PICK UP ARTISTS STARTED OFF AS COMPLETE WUSS-A-HOLICS

-ONLINE DATING AS A WHOLE HAS AROUND A 10% SUCCESS RATE FOR FINDING THE ONE.

-THERE ARE OVER 1400 DIFFERENT INTERNET DATING SITES AS OF 2008

-EVERYDAY 3000 GIRLS TURN 21 IN THE UNITED STATES

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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COD said:
-MOST MARRIAGES FAIL THE FIRST TIME ROUND 57%, INCREASE THAT TO 80% FOR SECOND MARRIAGES.

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS ALSO A SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE LAWYER

-SIR ISAAC NEWTON (scientist) DIED A VIRGIN !

-BARBIE & KEN (the plastic dolls) stayed together for 43 years.

-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-ON AVERAGE MEN FALL IN LOVE IN 4 DATES, WOMEN ABOUT 20

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-MOST PICK UP ARTISTS STARTED OFF AS COMPLETE WUSS-A-HOLICS

-ONLINE DATING AS A WHOLE HAS AROUND A 10% SUCCESS RATE FOR FINDING THE ONE.

-THERE ARE OVER 1400 DIFFERENT INTERNET DATING SITES AS OF 2008

-EVERYDAY 3000 GIRLS TURN 21 IN THE UNITED STATES

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
Some interesting things there like men falling in love in 4 dates as opposed to women in 20... but DJ's are rear.


Furyguy said:
Where'd you get this stat from?
To become a PUA you need to know what you're doing and so why do men study pick up in the first place... because they are AFCs.
 

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People make up statistics all the time. 37% of all people know that.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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COD said:
-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.
I think its half and half. A part of you communicates with your bodylanguage. The other part with your mouth.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I guess even back then, the nerds didn't get any ass.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I think its half and half. A part of you communicates with your bodylanguage. The other part with your mouth.
It's about 55% body language and about 30% voice tone. The rest words. Thats why DJ's can say anthing to a girl when chatting them up and AFC not matter what they say doesn't work if they have AFC body language and voice tone etc
 

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3000 girls turn 21 every day? let's do the math.

300 Million people in america.... Assuming there is exactly the same of people of every age, (which is false, to balance this cutoff is age 67) lets divide 300 by 67 and figure out how many 20 year olds there are.


300,000,000 / 67 = 4,477,611 - Four million. Now 2.25 million is half of that, or just the girls.

2.25 million / 365(the days in a year) to see what the odds are that any one of them is having a birthday.

= 6164 ... . Weird the number checks out actually, since I'm using just rough approximations. Interesting.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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These stats have small amounts of truth to them but no stat sounds 100%

Except i did hear newton died a virgin too. sucks. you think figuring out gravity and what not would "PULL" you in some pvssy

ok lame joke
 

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Abe Lincoln was gay - when a man shares a bed with another man for years there is a probability that someone was getting his pole smoked!
 

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COD said:
-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
You can easily make successful approaches using these statistics. :up:
 
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