"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Factoids----did U Know.......

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-MOST MARRIAGES FAIL THE FIRST TIME ROUND 57%, INCREASE THAT TO 80% FOR SECOND MARRIAGES.

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS ALSO A SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE LAWYER

-SIR ISAAC NEWTON (scientist) DIED A VIRGIN !

-BARBIE & KEN (the plastic dolls) stayed together for 43 years.

-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-ON AVERAGE MEN FALL IN LOVE IN 4 DATES, WOMEN ABOUT 20

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-MOST PICK UP ARTISTS STARTED OFF AS COMPLETE WUSS-A-HOLICS

-ONLINE DATING AS A WHOLE HAS AROUND A 10% SUCCESS RATE FOR FINDING THE ONE.

-THERE ARE OVER 1400 DIFFERENT INTERNET DATING SITES AS OF 2008

-EVERYDAY 3000 GIRLS TURN 21 IN THE UNITED STATES

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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COD said:
-MOST MARRIAGES FAIL THE FIRST TIME ROUND 57%, INCREASE THAT TO 80% FOR SECOND MARRIAGES.

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS ALSO A SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE LAWYER

-SIR ISAAC NEWTON (scientist) DIED A VIRGIN !

-BARBIE & KEN (the plastic dolls) stayed together for 43 years.

-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-ON AVERAGE MEN FALL IN LOVE IN 4 DATES, WOMEN ABOUT 20

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-MOST PICK UP ARTISTS STARTED OFF AS COMPLETE WUSS-A-HOLICS

-ONLINE DATING AS A WHOLE HAS AROUND A 10% SUCCESS RATE FOR FINDING THE ONE.

-THERE ARE OVER 1400 DIFFERENT INTERNET DATING SITES AS OF 2008

-EVERYDAY 3000 GIRLS TURN 21 IN THE UNITED STATES

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
Some interesting things there like men falling in love in 4 dates as opposed to women in 20... but DJ's are rear.


Furyguy said:
Where'd you get this stat from?
To become a PUA you need to know what you're doing and so why do men study pick up in the first place... because they are AFCs.
 

DonJuan11

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People make up statistics all the time. 37% of all people know that.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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COD said:
-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.
I think its half and half. A part of you communicates with your bodylanguage. The other part with your mouth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess even back then, the nerds didn't get any ass.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I think its half and half. A part of you communicates with your bodylanguage. The other part with your mouth.
It's about 55% body language and about 30% voice tone. The rest words. Thats why DJ's can say anthing to a girl when chatting them up and AFC not matter what they say doesn't work if they have AFC body language and voice tone etc
 

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3000 girls turn 21 every day? let's do the math.

300 Million people in america.... Assuming there is exactly the same of people of every age, (which is false, to balance this cutoff is age 67) lets divide 300 by 67 and figure out how many 20 year olds there are.


300,000,000 / 67 = 4,477,611 - Four million. Now 2.25 million is half of that, or just the girls.

2.25 million / 365(the days in a year) to see what the odds are that any one of them is having a birthday.

= 6164 ... . Weird the number checks out actually, since I'm using just rough approximations. Interesting.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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These stats have small amounts of truth to them but no stat sounds 100%

Except i did hear newton died a virgin too. sucks. you think figuring out gravity and what not would "PULL" you in some pvssy

ok lame joke
 

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Abe Lincoln was gay - when a man shares a bed with another man for years there is a probability that someone was getting his pole smoked!
 

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COD said:
-COMMUNICATION IS 93% NON VERBAL, add texting, emails, faxes, etc and you might as well be a mute.

-CHEMICALLY CHOCOLATE HAS THE SAME EFFECT ON THE BODY AS FALLING IN LOVE.

-43% OF THE FEMALE POPULATION AGED 18-45 HAVE HAD A BI-CURIOUS EXPERIENCE
You can easily make successful approaches using these statistics. :up:
 
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