"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Frank_Tartaglia

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I was thinking growing a beard or a mustache. I was wondering what styles would be best, ex short beard, goatee, soul patch, etc.

Also, how do women react to this? Do women like men with facial hair or are they turned off by it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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synergy1

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I sport the five o clock shadow, but find women seem attracted to about 1 days worth of growth. I still shave before I go out most nights though.
 

Darles Chickens

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I've got a full beard but keep it smartly trimmed along the jawline. If you are going to go to the lengths of growing a full beard then I suggest you invest in a beard trimmer and keep it real neat.

Before I grew mine I read a quote that said if you have enough facial hair to be able to grow a beard then you owe it to yourself to grow one at least once in your life...so i did.

Check this site out if you want to go the whole way. It's got lots of tips and stories about successful facial growth!!

http://www.beards.org/

To answer your other question: They take to it quite well. Women always want to stroke my face or give my beard a rub so I can't complain and i'd say that it doesn't really matter unless a woman is particularly fussy about it.

Just try it out and see how it looks. I can tell you now that it's also an extremely cheap hobby. Shaping and styling your facial hair can take over your life!! ha ha

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I have a goatee.. mustasche included. Some guys just have hair on their chin and no mustache... I'm just clarifying.

Anyways, some girls like beards and ect while others dont. My gf likes my goatee thick and long. :rolleyes:

I'd say go with whatever you think looks best on you.
 

Cableguy

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I've been rocking the short beard for a while now and was honestly shocked by how many chicks dig it. I affectionately refer to it as my womb broom.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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