"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Facial Hair

Frank_Tartaglia

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I was thinking growing a beard or a mustache. I was wondering what styles would be best, ex short beard, goatee, soul patch, etc.

Also, how do women react to this? Do women like men with facial hair or are they turned off by it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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synergy1

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I sport the five o clock shadow, but find women seem attracted to about 1 days worth of growth. I still shave before I go out most nights though.
 

Darles Chickens

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I've got a full beard but keep it smartly trimmed along the jawline. If you are going to go to the lengths of growing a full beard then I suggest you invest in a beard trimmer and keep it real neat.

Before I grew mine I read a quote that said if you have enough facial hair to be able to grow a beard then you owe it to yourself to grow one at least once in your life...so i did.

Check this site out if you want to go the whole way. It's got lots of tips and stories about successful facial growth!!

http://www.beards.org/

To answer your other question: They take to it quite well. Women always want to stroke my face or give my beard a rub so I can't complain and i'd say that it doesn't really matter unless a woman is particularly fussy about it.

Just try it out and see how it looks. I can tell you now that it's also an extremely cheap hobby. Shaping and styling your facial hair can take over your life!! ha ha

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I have a goatee.. mustasche included. Some guys just have hair on their chin and no mustache... I'm just clarifying.

Anyways, some girls like beards and ect while others dont. My gf likes my goatee thick and long. :rolleyes:

I'd say go with whatever you think looks best on you.
 

Cableguy

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I've been rocking the short beard for a while now and was honestly shocked by how many chicks dig it. I affectionately refer to it as my womb broom.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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