"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Facial hair

Westwind

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I'm sure this has been discussed maybe even been a thread before but what do you guys think about facial hair.

What do women find to be the most attractive? Or maybe none at all.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sam Adams

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It depends on what you can pull off. I can't grow very good facial hair and the stuff I do grow is blonde so I just stay clean shaven. It depends on your facial features and your appearance.
 

Wiesman44

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depends on the woman. There's no magical answer, no matter how much we discuss it.
 

tsmith2334

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I think if you have dark facial hair that grows decently you should atleast try something. I had a beard for a little while and it got a compliment right when the girl it saw it on a date recently. I think it facial hair definitely has a "manly" aura to it.

I have a goatee right now.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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strong like bull

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depends on three things:

1) facial features of the guy (shape of face, etc)

2) what kind of facial hair he can grow (full beard, only goatee, etc)

3) personal preference of the woman



depending on the shape of your face, certain styles of facial hair will ENHANCE your natural attributes and make you more attractive. other styles will bring focus to negative traits and make you look less than great. for example, although i look good clean shaven, i look great with the "2 day unshaven" setup. i also look great with a goatee, minus the mustache. but at the same time if i just grew a mustache id look ridiculous. theres websites on the net that give advice for each head shape... google it.

as far as what girls like... i read somewhere that when girls are ovulating and at their peak state for becoming pregnant, they are even more attracted to the "rugged" or "masculine" features than usual. for instance, everything else being equal theyd be more sexually attracted to the guy with the five oclock shadow than the clean cut preppy looking guy whos clean shaved. for what its worth, ive always had better results with girls when i have some degree of facial hair.


-SLB
 

Latinoman

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I have nice facial hair. The women I know...like it. Non-facial hair makes me look WAY too young. My facial hair gives me the "bad boy" look some women like.
 

ChapStick

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I can't grew a full beard yet.. But I can grow a semi-goatee... I've got black hair though, so it's all good!
 
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