“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Facial hair

Westwind

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I'm sure this has been discussed maybe even been a thread before but what do you guys think about facial hair.

What do women find to be the most attractive? Or maybe none at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It depends on what you can pull off. I can't grow very good facial hair and the stuff I do grow is blonde so I just stay clean shaven. It depends on your facial features and your appearance.
 

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depends on the woman. There's no magical answer, no matter how much we discuss it.
 

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I think if you have dark facial hair that grows decently you should atleast try something. I had a beard for a little while and it got a compliment right when the girl it saw it on a date recently. I think it facial hair definitely has a "manly" aura to it.

I have a goatee right now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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depends on three things:

1) facial features of the guy (shape of face, etc)

2) what kind of facial hair he can grow (full beard, only goatee, etc)

3) personal preference of the woman



depending on the shape of your face, certain styles of facial hair will ENHANCE your natural attributes and make you more attractive. other styles will bring focus to negative traits and make you look less than great. for example, although i look good clean shaven, i look great with the "2 day unshaven" setup. i also look great with a goatee, minus the mustache. but at the same time if i just grew a mustache id look ridiculous. theres websites on the net that give advice for each head shape... google it.

as far as what girls like... i read somewhere that when girls are ovulating and at their peak state for becoming pregnant, they are even more attracted to the "rugged" or "masculine" features than usual. for instance, everything else being equal theyd be more sexually attracted to the guy with the five oclock shadow than the clean cut preppy looking guy whos clean shaved. for what its worth, ive always had better results with girls when i have some degree of facial hair.


-SLB
 

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I have nice facial hair. The women I know...like it. Non-facial hair makes me look WAY too young. My facial hair gives me the "bad boy" look some women like.
 

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I can't grew a full beard yet.. But I can grow a semi-goatee... I've got black hair though, so it's all good!
 
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