"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Facial hair

Westwind

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I'm sure this has been discussed maybe even been a thread before but what do you guys think about facial hair.

What do women find to be the most attractive? Or maybe none at all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sam Adams

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It depends on what you can pull off. I can't grow very good facial hair and the stuff I do grow is blonde so I just stay clean shaven. It depends on your facial features and your appearance.
 

Wiesman44

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depends on the woman. There's no magical answer, no matter how much we discuss it.
 

tsmith2334

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I think if you have dark facial hair that grows decently you should atleast try something. I had a beard for a little while and it got a compliment right when the girl it saw it on a date recently. I think it facial hair definitely has a "manly" aura to it.

I have a goatee right now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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strong like bull

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depends on three things:

1) facial features of the guy (shape of face, etc)

2) what kind of facial hair he can grow (full beard, only goatee, etc)

3) personal preference of the woman



depending on the shape of your face, certain styles of facial hair will ENHANCE your natural attributes and make you more attractive. other styles will bring focus to negative traits and make you look less than great. for example, although i look good clean shaven, i look great with the "2 day unshaven" setup. i also look great with a goatee, minus the mustache. but at the same time if i just grew a mustache id look ridiculous. theres websites on the net that give advice for each head shape... google it.

as far as what girls like... i read somewhere that when girls are ovulating and at their peak state for becoming pregnant, they are even more attracted to the "rugged" or "masculine" features than usual. for instance, everything else being equal theyd be more sexually attracted to the guy with the five oclock shadow than the clean cut preppy looking guy whos clean shaved. for what its worth, ive always had better results with girls when i have some degree of facial hair.


-SLB
 

Latinoman

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I have nice facial hair. The women I know...like it. Non-facial hair makes me look WAY too young. My facial hair gives me the "bad boy" look some women like.
 

ChapStick

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I can't grew a full beard yet.. But I can grow a semi-goatee... I've got black hair though, so it's all good!
 
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