"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Facial hair
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
I have a goatee right now.
Quiksilver
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
strong like bull
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1) facial features of the guy (shape of face, etc)
2) what kind of facial hair he can grow (full beard, only goatee, etc)
3) personal preference of the woman
depending on the shape of your face, certain styles of facial hair will ENHANCE your natural attributes and make you more attractive. other styles will bring focus to negative traits and make you look less than great. for example, although i look good clean shaven, i look great with the "2 day unshaven" setup. i also look great with a goatee, minus the mustache. but at the same time if i just grew a mustache id look ridiculous. theres websites on the net that give advice for each head shape... google it.
as far as what girls like... i read somewhere that when girls are ovulating and at their peak state for becoming pregnant, they are even more attracted to the "rugged" or "masculine" features than usual. for instance, everything else being equal theyd be more sexually attracted to the guy with the five oclock shadow than the clean cut preppy looking guy whos clean shaved. for what its worth, ive always had better results with girls when i have some degree of facial hair.
-SLB
LostAndConfused
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