Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wolfjay

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Hi everyone, I'm relatively new to this thread, I'd like to ask u guys a question and advice.
I've been in contact with this girl on facebook, I gave her my number to call me, and she called me, we spoke for 20 min, just regular stuff u know, and then I ended the call telling her I had to go, so here's the question, when should I contact her again? Or maybe I shouldn't contact her at all and just wait for her to contact me? Thanks in advance
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dedication

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You currently have a bigger problem than 'when to call her'.

What do you want from this girl? If you want a facebook friend or a phone buddy, you're on the right track. If you want anything that requires you to meet her in person, you've just missed a great opportunity to meet her.

Assuming you want to meet her. You should have some sort of idea were to take her before you talk to each other on the phone. Then when the first phone call happens you make your plan of meeting her happen.

Anyway, I don't know how attracted she is or if she's friendzoned you, the only way to find that out is ask her out and see how she respons.
 

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call her whenever you have something in particular(I.E NOT idle, aimless chit chat) to say, otherwise wait for her to call you
 

Wolfjay

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Tnx for the replies, but there's something to it, that she's very isolated by her parents and she told me she doesn't want them to throw her outta house, she was very scared when she spoke to me when her parents weren't home, seems like she wants to explode and meet some guy to have fun with, she wouldn't give out her private info or place of residence anyway
 

FortunateSon

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1. Ditch Facebook!

2. Text her when you want. If she wants your piece, she'll want your piece, all other stuff is irrelevant unless you screw up.

3. Bang her and make a break for it. Never, ever commit and never ever stick around to see the consequences of your actions.

But, yeah ditch Facebook, it's no good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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