"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wolfjay

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Hi everyone, I'm relatively new to this thread, I'd like to ask u guys a question and advice.
I've been in contact with this girl on facebook, I gave her my number to call me, and she called me, we spoke for 20 min, just regular stuff u know, and then I ended the call telling her I had to go, so here's the question, when should I contact her again? Or maybe I shouldn't contact her at all and just wait for her to contact me? Thanks in advance
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dedication

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You currently have a bigger problem than 'when to call her'.

What do you want from this girl? If you want a facebook friend or a phone buddy, you're on the right track. If you want anything that requires you to meet her in person, you've just missed a great opportunity to meet her.

Assuming you want to meet her. You should have some sort of idea were to take her before you talk to each other on the phone. Then when the first phone call happens you make your plan of meeting her happen.

Anyway, I don't know how attracted she is or if she's friendzoned you, the only way to find that out is ask her out and see how she respons.
 

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call her whenever you have something in particular(I.E NOT idle, aimless chit chat) to say, otherwise wait for her to call you
 

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Tnx for the replies, but there's something to it, that she's very isolated by her parents and she told me she doesn't want them to throw her outta house, she was very scared when she spoke to me when her parents weren't home, seems like she wants to explode and meet some guy to have fun with, she wouldn't give out her private info or place of residence anyway
 

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1. Ditch Facebook!

2. Text her when you want. If she wants your piece, she'll want your piece, all other stuff is irrelevant unless you screw up.

3. Bang her and make a break for it. Never, ever commit and never ever stick around to see the consequences of your actions.

But, yeah ditch Facebook, it's no good.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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