“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
facebook update good or bad?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Granted, there are people who tend to be a caricature of themselves and aim to be so left-field on what's "acceptable".Conquer said:
Personally I think everyone that puts one of the following on their status are lame:
a) What you are doing - I don't give a ****
b) A religious quote - I don't care about your pretentious beliefs
c) Using it to vent personal problems - Talk to a friend or hire a therapist
d) Song lyrics/Emo phrases - Unoriginal and lame
Personally I use it for humorous off the wall comments. I aim for offensive, I aim for hilarity, I am for controversy. I don't take it seriously, and neither should anyone else.
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Yeah, everyone is so predictable with their updates and once in awhile I post something off the wall that gets me laughs. And since the majority of my friends are women 25 and above, I know they're sex drive is high, but most of the guys are rather timid and blah with their posts trying not to offend.FirefighterMD said:
One of my female friends took the "how often do you need sex test" and I commented under her results "that after having sex with my girlfriend, one hour later I'm jacking off in the shower." After that comment, then I noticed her friend post a Christmas gathering video of them and her receiving a vibrator, and her other friends start talking about her "ass being sore" when before none of them would even come remotely close to using such words.
So I'm thinking that post might get me a laugh and loosen up the girls and make them think I'm a guy that has balls to even post such a thing, and probably keep them thinking of me. Not to be conceded but I think my pics look pretty handsome and have had good comments from the ladies.
So Firefighter would you post such a thing just to screw with their heads?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well sometimes being being silly gets the girl. If you watched the movie "Big" with Tom Hanks, He won a sophisticated full grown woman away from a successful full grown man of this world. It was because his silly boyish behavior brought out the little girl that's hidden in every adult female. The little girl that wants to come out to play.amoka said:
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Movie bro...remember it's a MOVIE.jacob said:
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lol. my ex was an store manager and exotic dancer and was courted by business men, me I have nothing, I ride a bike, work part time and live at home with my parents. She was sophisticated and headstrong, alot of these successful guys bought her anything she wanted, but she chose me because I was silly and playful and made her comfortable. She bought ME stuff, she moved into my house with horrible living conditions and we effed like porn stars for over a year. All because, I acted different from your typical adult male. So it does work in real life.Desert Fox said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Speaking of updates though. I hate it when people post updates 4-5 times a day. I am going to the mall, i am going to work, i am bored, i had a great day, i am going to party tonight, i am hanging out w my friends, i cant sleep, i just ate some good food, blah blah blah. WTF do we need to know everything you doing every minute. I have friends that have iphone and do this all the time its so annoying!
Personally i could care less about facebook and i check it maybe once a week and post an update maybe once a month. While i can understand that girls might do this because they want attention but i have seen many of my guy friends doing it too. To me its like trying to be cool over the internet. Its like they are trying to say that they are social and they do stuff all the time.
Then I checked again and first response was a female "Just like the crops on Farm Town if you don't harvest them LOL!" so I know I made her crack up, the response I was hoping to get. Then another comment from a female "That's funny. LOL" and finally one more from a guy "THERE MUST BE ONE CHICK THAT NEEDS ONE ON FACEBOOK!!JUST LET THE SNAKE LOOSE IN (hometown)!! LOL
I ain't going fret what the others think but hopefully they got a laugh like the ones who commented.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.