"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LandingWood

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What do you guys tell people who ask why you don't have any social networking accounts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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switch

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a girl just asked me this

"yeah but you are not n facebook,or other places.like a ninja."

i responded:
oh im too sexy and i get lots of stalkers. im too broke to pay stalker tax so no thank you.


edit: now that i think about it, i could have said : "oh you wanna stalk me now?" .....

damn...could have played it better...oh well maybe next time
 

El Suave

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I say I'm busy with my engineering degree and I am tired of seeing what people had for breakfast everyday.

If I had a Facebook I would probably post a pic of a plate of food and next to it one of a toilet with a massive dump. You know, a before and after picture.:cheer:
 

VladPatton

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Use it to work a number grab. Say "it's not my thing, what's your number, I'll text and call you". If she refuses, so be it. 90% of them just want it to stalk and snoop on your life. Don't give em the satisfaction. If they wanna know what you're about they gotta go out with you, as a man and woman should do.
 

TitanSS

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I've been trying not to post anything on Facebook lately and had considered deleting it all together.

Facebook ruins the mystery. Once a woman has full disclosure to what you're up to it kind of ruins the interest.

I probably will delete it within a few weeks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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