LandingWood
Don Juan
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What do you guys tell people who ask why you don't have any social networking accounts?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
a girl just asked me this
"yeah but you are not n facebook,or other places.like a ninja."
i responded:
oh im too sexy and i get lots of stalkers. im too broke to pay stalker tax so no thank you.
edit: now that i think about it, i could have said : "oh you wanna stalk me now?" .....
damn...could have played it better...oh well maybe next time
"yeah but you are not n facebook,or other places.like a ninja."
i responded:
oh im too sexy and i get lots of stalkers. im too broke to pay stalker tax so no thank you.
edit: now that i think about it, i could have said : "oh you wanna stalk me now?" .....
damn...could have played it better...oh well maybe next time
I say I'm busy with my engineering degree and I am tired of seeing what people had for breakfast everyday.
If I had a Facebook I would probably post a pic of a plate of food and next to it one of a toilet with a massive dump. You know, a before and after picture.:cheer:
If I had a Facebook I would probably post a pic of a plate of food and next to it one of a toilet with a massive dump. You know, a before and after picture.:cheer:
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Use it to work a number grab. Say "it's not my thing, what's your number, I'll text and call you". If she refuses, so be it. 90% of them just want it to stalk and snoop on your life. Don't give em the satisfaction. If they wanna know what you're about they gotta go out with you, as a man and woman should do.
I've been trying not to post anything on Facebook lately and had considered deleting it all together.
Facebook ruins the mystery. Once a woman has full disclosure to what you're up to it kind of ruins the interest.
I probably will delete it within a few weeks.
Facebook ruins the mystery. Once a woman has full disclosure to what you're up to it kind of ruins the interest.
I probably will delete it within a few weeks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.