"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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'Facebook Stalking'

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People at Uni seem to have engaged in 'Facebook stalking' where they will somehow find out the name of a HB and check out all her pictures. Or they might talk to her once then add her to FB, please don't do this in my opinion it is a totally AFC thing to do. On the other hand, don't read too much into it if you've been added by a nice looking girl, it does your confidence some good but it doesn't mean she wants you to knock her back doors in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this entire post is about 98% truth :up:

There is nothing morally wrong with facebook stalking, and no one else will likely know that you did it. But tantalizing yourself with girls online will likely degrade your soul and make you a lesser man
 

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I think the curiosity is there (I'm guilty to it) but think it's not at all what an alpha male would do. The girls would add him to their friends list.
 

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I'm such a facebook stalker! But I don't add people I don't know. So I guess that would mean I only stalk my friends...hmmm. That, and people with public profiles.
 

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imo, everyone (male or female) who makes their facebook profile non-public is a complete p*ssy and loser and a waste of oxygen on this planet :mad:


seriously, what harm is gonna come from allowing other people at your college to view your profile -- unless you've posted a bunch of naked pictures of yourself that you're afraid will get you expelled or something
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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