"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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'Facebook Stalking'

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People at Uni seem to have engaged in 'Facebook stalking' where they will somehow find out the name of a HB and check out all her pictures. Or they might talk to her once then add her to FB, please don't do this in my opinion it is a totally AFC thing to do. On the other hand, don't read too much into it if you've been added by a nice looking girl, it does your confidence some good but it doesn't mean she wants you to knock her back doors in.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this entire post is about 98% truth :up:

There is nothing morally wrong with facebook stalking, and no one else will likely know that you did it. But tantalizing yourself with girls online will likely degrade your soul and make you a lesser man
 

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I think the curiosity is there (I'm guilty to it) but think it's not at all what an alpha male would do. The girls would add him to their friends list.
 

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I'm such a facebook stalker! But I don't add people I don't know. So I guess that would mean I only stalk my friends...hmmm. That, and people with public profiles.
 

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imo, everyone (male or female) who makes their facebook profile non-public is a complete p*ssy and loser and a waste of oxygen on this planet :mad:


seriously, what harm is gonna come from allowing other people at your college to view your profile -- unless you've posted a bunch of naked pictures of yourself that you're afraid will get you expelled or something
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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